Some people just aren't good with money.
This is true. I'm not saying that financial domination can't be a good thing. When I was married, that was the only thing my husband ever did that could be termed dominant. He handled balancing the checkbook and paying bills. I didn't necessarily have to ask him for money or permission to buy things. The only time I asked was if it was more than a couple hundred dollars just to make sure it wasn't gonna get us in a bind since I really had no clue. I was just stating my opinion of the online crap that everyone thinks is so wrong. It is morally wrong, but people also need to take responsibility and stop playing the victim all the time. I'm sorry (not really) if I sound unsympathetic to their plight, but it's not as if they're being forced or duped out of their cold hard cash.