Well SirW body modification is something that I won't consider until I can be there with her for it. She has no experience in anything like that. She does not even have her ears pierced so major changes like that are out for the moment. I also only consider modification after I have had a chance to experience everything in it's natural state. Some nipples/breasts look odd and out of place with piercings, others I find are crying out for them. So on that front we will have to wait and see.

Pubic hair - nothing there to style so that is not an option either

As for buttplugs or corsets, well she has NO toys whatsoever. No dildos, nothing. So before any toys can be used she must first buy them or I must send them to her. There is no rush. We have known each other for only a very short time and I am progressing gently.

I did a session of breastplay with her and got her to put a peg over each nipple. She was very confused by the pain/pleasure she felt from that. She is however in love with icecubes now I tried to explain that the pain was good for her to feel and there wasn't anything wrong with enjoying pain but I fear that it was not my best explanation so to reinforce that, and fight off societies stigma, another session very soon is in order I think.

I am thinking about sending her a few pictures, one at a time, and having her describe how they make her feel. I think that is a good idea.

If you have a very busy sub then what I think you need to do is take the activities that she does everyday at home and at work and put a twist no them, or place a restriction on them. This will let her feel your control almost all day long and give her the impression that you are controlling so many aspects of her life. I have no idea what kind of work she does (or do I, I can't remember) but let me know if you like (in a PM?) and we'll see what we can come up with.

Jason