Well SirW punishment is something i don't have any problems with But also something I do not think that I will need to use very often.

The necklace is quite short and sits very high on the neck, just at the base of the throat, I tried it out with a friend when i was buying it to get the right length, so it does even look like a collar a little. I think she will be quite moved when she receives it.

Which really brings me to the next question. When do you ask an online submissive personal details such as their address. My girl is not a secretive person, and has told me some very personal things already, but she does not even give out her real name over the net (usually) and I was wondering if you can get a sense of when to ask for her address, or if you should simply state you have something for her and when she feels comfortable to send her address.

The other night I had my sub explore her breasts a little. She really has had no contact with them, which does sound funny I know, but she has had almost no sexual experience and even had trouble describing her nipples and breasts to me. She just hadn't thought of them much, they are just there, but she was extremely responsive and quite excited that she had discovered something new and intimate about her body. It was a particularly gratifying experience for me as I feel a slave must know her own body before she can use it to satisfy others. She then admitted to me that she had played with them in the bath to feel that sensation again and I gently admonished her, as I had told her at the last session to stop playing and that there would be plenty of other opportunities to play when I initiated it. She said that she had misunderstood and had thought I meant stop just that time not that she wasn't allowed to play with them. I reassured her that it was ok but no more playing without permission, after all I believe it was really my fault for not being clearer in the first instance. But she was quite upset that she had disobeyed me which is why I feel that punishment may be a rare occasion with this little sub.

Jason