Quote Originally Posted by myri_SN
i'm not confused that guy seems to have a very wrong opinion. and have no clue about bdsm at all i think
then yesterday i read on another forum (not bdsmlibrary, they were arguying that the slaves ont he pics they kept posting were poor girls and needed to be pitied for what happens to them ) that some guy said that the women he plays with, (he didn't say play he said the ones he hurts and tortures) don't want to be hurt but they got no other choice . so someone replied if they were going straight to the police afterwards then. he plainly replied: i told him that that wasn't BDSM but rape and abuse!!!!!
What this juy is doing is not ply, it is abuse. he isn't a Dom or even a Top, let a lone a Master he is some pervert getting his kiks off beatting up weman and calling it BDSM. This is the type of pervert, and yes I do meen pervert that gives use in the D/s life style a bad name. This is the type of %^^%$$#$$ that everyone thinks we are becouse when he does get cought, and he will pepole say are what we are, and he is going to say in his defence that he is in the D/s life style, and that is what we do. %*^*^$& like him make me sick. As for the *&%^%&$% well the words I have to discribe IT, well I have more respect to everyone reading this than to say them. And in here we can say some pretty rounghy things in the forums.