SirW, I didn't misunderstand, I just wanted to agree with you and add my two cents.

Just a little on names, I can't really call her a slut or a whore as she has so little experience we both know that would just sound silly She also has a beautiful name that I love, and that she does not share with anyone else on the net, she has enough nicks of her own, so I very much prefer to use that.

I was thinking of your thoughts on sending her a necklace she can wear in lieu of a collar. I am envisioning it as a kind of training collar, to let her have the feel of something around her neck and see how she does and how that makes her feel. I have bought a small silver herringbone snake necklace (not sure how else to describe it) that sits quite high on the neck (at the base) and is very pretty but with some weight to it so she will know it is there and that she can wear all of the time. Just wondering if you have done this before. I have given real life subs such training collars and thought it would be one of the things that may even have more meaning for an online/distance sub.

Jason