Quote Originally Posted by sugeneg
I just wanted to make a small comment about using your absence to punish a slave. This I cannot really understand. Surely you have a slave because you enjoy being with them, you enjoy how they make you feel, simply enjoy their presence. Why would you want to absent yourself from those feelings. Surely you are simply punishing yourself. And if you do not feel that way about your slave then why the hell are you with her.
I think you misunderstood what I was saying. I am in full agreement with you. I would never use absence as a punishment. I feel it is borderline abuse. I never tell a sub that because she failed to do something the way I expected it, I will not see or talk to her for a period of time. Doms who do this are not Dominants, in my opinion, they are cowards or abusers.
So we are in agreement on NOT using abscence as any typw of punishment, ever.

SirW