Quote Originally Posted by myri_SN
if there is something he thinks that i really dont like it i could ask him not to do it anymore but i wouldn't ask, if i don't like the particular thing, there is always some aspect to it that i like. for example i hate needles in my nipples but i know he likes doing that, and i sort of liek that he does it anyways no mather how scared i am, as long as i don't clearly ask him to not do it anymore he wont stop and if he wants to stick one in he will (cause i let him sort of, by not asking to see it as a hard limit, and that asking would only work as he said i could on that particular thing).
In my purely personal usage, I'd say that makes you a slave. If it's wrong for you in every way, but you get off on it because he enjoys doing it and because he does it for his own pleasure even though he knows you hate it, and he would stop if you insisted but you don't... That's what I call a slave.