ROFL You aren't the only one. I could post an entire post JUST about that. (Right now, my Master is actualy having me induce lactation... for the second time... so he can enjoy his own personal "reserve".) LOLP.S. I still think it is doable to put cows out of milk producing bussines!
My Master and I are into some VERY extreme experiences. AND we do the "rape fantasy" thing VERY often. I used to fantasize about it but no one I was every with before could set it up properly enough to make it intense enough for me. (Again, I am an extremist and it takes ALOT to please me.) The system my Master has devised is that "no" actually means "more" or "more intense" and then there is another word entirely for my "safeword". I have had safewords in place for years. Safewords I never used because NO ONE was extreme enough for me to use them. (Okay, once, I thought I twisted my knee by accident and had to use it but it had nothing to do with what the Dom did really... I just needed "time out" to make sure I was ok.) But, then my current Master came along and he devised some interesting ways to get very extreme to the point that I do use that safeword (not often, but I do it) but I also can (by my communication) let him to know he can go further more intensely and extremely. I think even the most extreme fantasy is do-able if you use a little imagination and creativity and have lots of communication both before during and after. Master and I have had a system in place for extreme things and it works well for us. Not everyone can or should be extreme but it can be done successfully if you both put some thought into it.