That raises some interesting points which I hadn't considered. The list contains activities which she does like as well as ones that she doesn't. Although, her enjoyment of them is not really the important issue, it's whether I enjoy the activities or not. It is more of a game, I suppose, than what most people would consider 'serious BDSM', but that is what works for us.
The reason I started this thread was to add more items to the list that were a punishment to her, as she does enjoy most of the activities on the list.
Following the game idea further, I have been thinking some about some rules to add for various situations, such as imposing a credit limit, and having certain punishments set aside for exceeding it. I have also been considering the idea of adding interest each month to the amount that I am owed, as it were. Does anyone have any suggestions for other rules? Someone with a background in banking perhaps?
Also, I probably should mention that we are in a long distance relationship, and are usually spend the weekends together, and the weeks apart (unfortunate but unavoidable for now). Perhaps this might stimulate a few ideas specifically for this situation?
Thanks to all for their input, I appreciate it, and look forward to more.