Originally posted by BDSM_Tourguide
Because at this point...




... I would be hitting my computer/grocery store/local bar for someone that would be willing to do it more than once a week and in new positions.

BDSM_Tourguide doesn't play the "withhold the sex" game. BDSM_Tourguide goes looking elsewhere for it if that becomes an issue.
But you forget the partner has the "hand"(the power)
and becouse of that if your not carful you will find your self using your hand.