... for an Amanda/Sylvie video in my inbox. *Sigh* Oh well.

If you feel you must breech the subject of kink, kinky sex, bondage, BDSM, submission and the like with your partner, but aren't sure how they will take to the new subject, then try the following:


[list=1][*]Put on some light music.[*]Have wine or a nice cup of coffee.[*]Sit down, dressed comfortably, on the sofa or someplace open.[*]Look at your partner.[*]Maintain a healthy level of eye contact.[*]Talk to your partner. Tell her what you desire. Explain to them what the appeal is to you.[*]You speak first. Get your ideas out in the open. Your partner can have a turn after you are done.[*]Now, let your partner speak. Let them ask questions, tell you what parts sounded good to them and what parts didn't and air their concerns.[*]Try to be as helpful as possible and don't pressure your partner into anything.[*]Suggest that maybe you try out a couple of your ideas just to see how well each of you likes them.[*]See where the conversation goes and move on from there.[/list=1]



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