Quote Originally Posted by Finding_Fantasy
Personally, I think it is very wrong to forbid anyone contact with another person because we need other people to socialize with, to talk to, and just plain old have around other than our present partners. Granted, I am not really friends with any of my past boyfriends but that is because all of them ended badly.
I totally agree with this.

But!

This is a bit of an impasse. If my sub was constantly bringing up an old dominant and saying, (for example) "Master Bill did it like this", etc., I would definitely listen to that Master Bill guy. After all, only a fool doesn't take good advice.

But continually... I'd be pretty certain that my sub and Master Bill have unfinished business that would be best addressed between the sub and Master Bill. I might even direct her, and drive her to Master Bill's place, and sweetly agree to pack up all of her things and ship them over to Master Bill's.

Hope that adds some perspective. Admittedly, I'm no 24/7 dominant.