It's so interesting to see people still looking at this thread after a year. I, for one, would love to read about others first experiences. For the record, we have progressed but there are still so many things we want to try. Part of what keeps it special for us is that we have so few opportunities to "experiment" because of work schedules and children. We have added whips to the equation which she is very fond of. I also bought a lovely butt plug and a giagantic dildoe (I'm talking HUGE!) that I am waiting for the right moment to introduce her to. We had a funny experience back in November that I'll share with you...

She threw a big surprise birthday party for me at a local bar. There were between 30 and 50 people there, all on a mission to get me drunk, which doesn't happen often. Half way through the party I was so out of it that she and 2 other girls that are good friends of ours took me home to undress me and put me to bed. Now I keep my bedroom dimly lit and most people wouldn't even notice the big I-bolts sticking out of the walls on either side of the bed. I'm usually pretty good about straightening up after a "session" but wouldn't you know that on this particular day I had forgotten to put away the two sets of handcuffs that were dangling from those bolts. They even snapped a picture of the three of them laying on top of me in the bed and the cuffs are clearly visible in the picture. To this day neither of the other girls has said a word about it...but we still wonder if they noticed and what they were thinking.

Some birthday...3 very attractive girls take me home, strip me and jump on top of me in bed...wouldn't you know I don't remember a bit of it!!! Nothing, nadda, ziltch! If there is a God, he must have a helluva sense of humor!