I know I'm rather late in responding to this thread....but it hit so close to home when I came across it, that I just had to write a few words. I am also new to this lifestyle. Actually when I met my Master on-line it was just flirting with a guy I met on another site (it wasn't BDSM related at all!). But he had picked up some things I had written in my profile on that site that made him feel I might be submissive! I didn't even know I had those feelings until he brought them out in me! We chatted on-line a lot at first, then began talking on the phone too! He was and is absolutely amazing! And may I just add.....this man has the sexiest voice I have ever heard and just hearing him speak makes me hot! We have met in person twice (OMG.....it was fabulous!).

Back to the point....he has made me go 13 days without hearing from him either because he was busy with his work, or I had disappointed him or a combination of the two! He gives me the silent treatment and sometimes it can be unbearable! A kind of punishment I guess.

Anyway I hope you worked out things with your Dom as nothing is more wonderful than feeling like a lovestruck teenager (except kneeling at your Masters feet!)