Funnily enough I am about to make a purchase of this nature and was going to go for a softer version this time. Now I'm not so sure.

There are so many varieties to choose from and buying online as I usually do , you are never really sure of what you are buying, in that you are not sure if its right for you.

I think I will go to the local shop and have a good look around. (yes the sex shop is local to me!) I can have a good look and decide which one is right for me. From what teyha has said, I think I will go more for the the harder type. I imagine there is nothing more annoying than having to keep reapplying lube all the time.

I too await any comments on this.