this is something that surprises me too. Judging by the stories, there are some pretty extreme people - at least fantasywise - hanging around here. Judging by some of the posts here, you'd think that bdsm is a pair of handcuffs, missionary position, and a nice long hot shower afterwards to make sure everything is squeaky clean.

I find many of the stories pretty gross. I am not at all into violence, n/c, permanent damage, extreme pain, etc., etc. But I thought that was the whole reason for a place such as this here library; to satisfy the needs of those for whom the playboy channel does next to nothing. So I don't read those stories, or I skip over parts I don't like and leave those into that alone. To each his/her own.

I am very much into oral sex (forced, of course) - and, like Napoleon, I don't want my woman to smell or taste like a bar of soap. The above is the next logical (long) step.
There is a difference between fantasy and reality, though. Would I take the step in RT? Prob not. That doesn't stop fantasy, though. And to those who do take the step, hats off.

And to those who tolerate without judging, hats off too.