I agree, redEva, that its rather disrespectful to go, "ewww" at someone's kink. However, those of us who posted just safety information were fulfilling our responsibility as community members and as people, to keep people safe. If the original poster were to find someone to carry out these activities with, he might be putting himself or them in danger. Since all BDSM needs to be safe, sane, and consensual, it is important that he (and others with similar interests) be well informed of the risks and alternatives.