Hmmm

maybe I get the wrong perception, but it kinda sounds to be a bad thing to be just a "bedroomdom/sub".
But I mean that what you might call a "true" submissive or because that term was matter of discussion before just a submissive who is willing to completely submit herself to her Dom - anyway just for me that seems such an incredible imense thing to give up.

As me for an example (and really I have no idea where this is going to lead since I am quite young and also very inexperienced) I am quite proud about the stuff I accomplish outside the bedroom, that I'm inteligent and will study and have a good payed fullfilling job. Or that I have an opinion that I would never let anyone forbid me.

Is that a lack of commitment?

*lol* am I rambling?

Or maybe I just get that term wrong, but what that term implies for me is a house-slave *lol* and not in the erotic kind of way, but the historic kind. Someone to do the chores, doesn't contradict or speak up and be there for the man's every wish.
I can imagine that that is hard to find...

sorry if there was any offence in this...

Laila