Thank you Jane. I love to hear stories with happy endings. I have met someone now, sounds quick doesn't it, but I have no idea how close she is to what I want. As so many people have said you have to wait and see and nurture the person because you never know what hidden depths they may have. Not everyone who is submissive has recognised that fact and just need the right person to draw it out.

So the search is on hiatus for a little bit to see if it canbe put to rest or not. Here's hoping.

Jason