1)Yes I am afraid it is a fact of life, but do not be discourage. There are many places you can go to try and locate a partner. Local clubs are probably the best place but if you don’t have nay then a place like ALT.com is nice. I found my real time subs there.

2)Smiles. Yes the relationship can be extremely caring, loving and even non-sexual in some cases. I am not into 24/7 play. I do many things with my subs other than fetish stuff. We go to dinner, watch movies, go shopping and even hang out with my family.

3)Grins, I think guys in a nice tight part of leather pants are quite hot. No I don’t think everyone requires leather as clothing but never say never. If it happens to be something that turns your domme into a hungry cat ready to devoir you. You may want to push that button. Smiles

4)I think just like any where else you will find all kinds of dominants with different needs. Heavy beatings may turn on some but I am afraid I couldn’t get into it unless the sub could. I love whipping, flogging and paddling but I also like my toys as well. The key for me is the interaction. I feed off of the submissive responses as they feed off mine. Not all subs are the same so not all interactions are the same.

5)For one a domme should not be doing any of those things unless you have agreed to go there with her. This is not about forcing you. This is about you both going somewhere together. If this is a fantasy of yours. I would thread very slowly taken you there. My sub Jeff just mentioned Dacryphilia (Arousal from Tears) to me. Could I take him there probably but we have a lot to talk about first.

The questions are not stupid and I think they where extremely good ones.

Jade