To both the BDSM Library and to the lifestyle.

I am gald that you have been able to see your way through the abuse. I know it's tough.

One misconception, however, is that ALL submissives have been abused and that is why they are submissives. Well, I know this is not true. I knew of my desires when I was 16, long before I became a victim of abuse. Though, I do agree, you do tend to find a lot of submissives who have been abused in some way in their lives.