I never punish my slave at anytime I am upset. I send her to her place to think about what she did. When I am calm down thenI tell her to assume her place in front of me and we talk about what she did. Then if I feel she needs more punishment I do it when I'am clam and then have her count the stroke and thank me for the punishment and I tell here as the punishment contuines for each stroke about how much I love and care for her. But every master and slave situation is different .


MrDom