I love that description "Bowling Ball Grip". For the next week I'm going to tell her that I want to go bowling this weekend!!!

I'll have to keep you guys posted (especially slavelucy) but...

As hard as I try...sometimes I feel like a one man version of the three stooges trying to be a Dom. I can see it now...11pm Saturday night I'm going to be sitting in bed with my ankles handcuffed to my nuts...a ball gag stuck in my ass and a butt plug hanging out of my nose...

and she'll be sound asleep!

That just seems to be how my luck runs!