Nothing you could say about Gwen could effect me more than what Gwen reveals about herself, SSMB, and the same goes for you. My opinion of you-- which doesn't mean a thing in your world, and rightfully so-- is based on what you say, and what insight you bring to the table.
Until the day Jinn says otherwise, we've earned the write to belittle each other and to say things to one-up and discredit each other as we please. I'm abstaining. I think you're depriving yourself of the value of knowing the other person and getting something out of the time you spend talking to them if you just lash out when you feel hurt.
For the record, I think Gwen is a pretty cool cat. I wan't singling her out. I was picking on topic drift that wasn't accomplishing anything. Two people trading insults is not the fault of one person.