Jacktar here, your friendly knotty boy.

I have in some circles discovered that people tend to look down on us a little. Even ' a switch is sub that has not met a proper master/ mistress yet...' Disappointing to say the least, I would say. Personally I'm in a stable relationship, with a lot of experimentation taking place and both of us have discovered that we have our likes and dislikes. The fact that we share some but not others complete the whole thing for both of us I think.

As for the starting from the bottom, how else can you ever learn? If you aare not even willing to try something you are going to do to some other luckless soul? I can understand not liking it, but not trying it?