What is really weird is, about half of the white people you meet in North America are intimated by Asian people. We think of them as smarter than us. Having grown up with a friend name Bill, who was half Vietnamese, and him being the smartest guy I know (and his two sisters), I guess that's part of it.

And then, you hear about something awful like the ABC channel producers and Margaret Cho, where they hired an "Asian" consultant who suggests eating with chopsticks... and put pressure on her to crash diet to be thinner and look more "white".

because, in my 20 short years alive i've come to realise that among the guys i've known who are of the same race and culture as i am. none of them, give me the feeling that they can dominate me. and i simply cant fathom the idea of being submissive to them... because in my heart of hearts, i know at i am at least their equal. i think the level of education is like a major major factor in this way of thinking. added on to the fact that for some weird strange reason, heaps of guys around my age here... or even slightly older, are realllllllllly horribly immature
Wow... I can definitely understand the desire to leave immature men out of your fantasies (see my earlier "Don't sub to Homer Simpson" comments).

So would one of your standards in your fantasies be a caucasian with a Bachelor's degree? Or would it require more than that? Or is less attractive, too?

Don't worry. I think we're speaking IN the generalities now, conscious of the fact that we're being disgustingly broad, and were talking about personal perspectives of our own race. (We've got our hall passes signed.)

I am enjoying this thread... and I'm the shallow guy who likes to make jokes and flirt all day! <g>