Originally posted by GaryWilcox
That is a very interesting generality!

Do you think it's because of western ideas permeating into your culture, or because of European images of slavery, or perhaps something else?

I know many American women who cast black men as their demons. (It's racist, but it's also fantasy, and racism/generality is perfectly acceptable in sexual fantasy, which is an internal dialogue.)

It kind of amuses me to be someone's image of 'bad man'! Not to be condescending, I'm sincere here... there's something kind of fun about it!

* Chases Angelstar around the room with a wet poodle *
*runs away from wet poodle*

but anyway. no i dont exactly know why. although i highly doubt it is because of my country's history... where the british were our colonial masters and all that stuff. or maybe its because of the way things work here... like people subconciously give preferential treatment to 'whites'... for some unknown reason.

but i guess its more of an inability on my part to feel 'lower' then someone of my own race? i know this sounds really horribly racist and stupid... as if i'm like demeaning and belittling my own race. trust me, i'm not. i actually think rather highly of my country and race and all that.

i guess its probably this mentality i have, that i am an equal to all other asians. or maybe even 'superior' in some ways, since my country is much more developed and all that then many other asian countries. so i guess technically, since i am an equal to my country-people i cant really see myself as their submissive can i.... unless maybe the guy is really assured and confident and all that. but that's another story.

because, in my 20 short years alive i've come to realise that among the guys i've known who are of the same race and culture as i am. none of them, give me the feeling that they can dominate me. and i simply cant fathom the idea of being submissive to them... because in my heart of hearts, i know at i am at least their equal. i think the level of education is like a major major factor in this way of thinking. added on to the fact that for some weird strange reason, heaps of guys around my age here... or even slightly older, are realllllllllly horribly immature :x

ok now i think this post of mine sounds really terrible and blunt and racist and egoistic and goodness knows what. but i dont know how to put it nicely and in a more politically correct manner.

anyway i have a disclaimer here tho. with respect to whatever i've said and all that, i am only refering to whites, and asians. blacks do not enter the picture at all.... i dunno why. dont ask me why. maybe its cos.... i have like seen zero blacks where i live? so i kinda just assume they dont enter the picture