Quote Originally Posted by velvet2000
First of all may I extend a low curstey to all Masters and a wave to all subs.
Welcome, Velvet2000!

Quote Originally Posted by velvet2000
The mistake we made was being tied up to long, my breasts were darker than my natural skin tone but were not overly blue or purple.
Live and learn. You did your homework, tried something new and it didn't work as well as you wanted it.

Congratulations on using your safeword!
That's what it's there for.

wheele2000 and Velvet2000, thanks for clarifying the situation. We can all learn from each other and you two have revealed a very personal moment as well as a great reason to safe word.

All,

Sometimes, the outside of the body doesn't appear to be doing anything out of the ordinary, but inside can be buzzing or burning, like a leg cramp or when a body part falls asleep. Using a safe word immediatly lets your partner know what's going on and adjustsments can be made for both your pleasure.

Phantome,

As I hope you can see, a safeword isn't always about extreme play. It can be about something as simple as "children interuptus" for those of us with kids or being stiff and uncomfortable from being in the same position for too long.

Time does tend to fly when we are having fun.

Ruby