<<Older men that take care of themselves are just damn sexy.>>

Not to mention older women, too ...

Actually, I like both older and younger subs. My longterm sub, Sylvie is actually about 6 years older than me. It's rather amusing to be domming someone older than me - I love it!

My newer sub is much younger than I am. It has been quite 'educational' seeing the different way she reacts to things. It has taken a lot of work to build her confidence up to the level it needs to be; her previous dom destroyed her self-confidence so much that I'd like to break his arms off and hit him with the wet end! Anyone who finds a sub who hates pain and then goes out of his way to inflict it deserves the worst that anyone can do to him. And no, he isn't that young, in his mid 30s, and doming for about 10 years, but they were definately a bad match. Unfortunately, she believed she deserved whatever he gave her, so it took a lot for her to break away.

It was really awful having a sub who was terrified of me to start out with, but we're coming along nicely now - as long as I remember which sub is a pain slut, and which one isn't