It happens to a lot of people. You have to decide if you want to get back on your feet and keep at it.

If you do, then this is a wonderful community to meet people, talk and ask questions.

If you don't, then best of luck to you in your endeavours.


Personally, I hate to see anyone leave the lifestyle, especially because of bad experiences. The first thing you must realize is, just because the few people you've run into seemed to be jerks, doesn't mean that all of us are. There are many of us out there that are warm, nice, friendly people that would love to have a devoted and caring female submissive.

My advice is to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get back on the horse.