Originally posted by jazz
Anyone who tells me that they have obeyed EVERY order/request that an online Dom has given them is just, i am sorry, IMHO, lying.
..but isn't this precisely the crux of the matter, i don't think it is a matter of whether or not a sub has obeyed every order issued by a dominant, but rather whether or not they have been truthful about it; this is to say that, yes, i agree that it is unlikely that many people have obeyed every order that an o/l dominant has given them, but surely if they are a worthy submissive, they will be honest about it and say "i'm sorry, i didn't do it" and take the consequences of it...be that a punishment or the dom taking the sub back to the task to try again....to me, it is precisely through this process that a relationship strengthens between a Dom and a sub. i am not talking about yourself and WW jazz, but about the nature of the D/s relationship in general.

On a more playful note....i have personally never faked an orgasm in r/l or o/l.....most men don't need their ego's massaging any further

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