there are times...when i have not seen Sir all week when all i want to do is cuddle Him,just knowing He is near and that i am His...and more often than not He is overtired from a long day at work...so that sex is one of the last things on His mind...He would rather relax while i make sure everything is to HIs liking....smiles..cups of tea on tap.... and then i settle down at HIs feet so He can pet me if He chooses