I think I have an idea as to what threw TG off with what jazz said and I will admitt it threw me for a loop as well.

The statemet was this from jazz :"A cam prevents any little white lies, because he KNOWS whether i obeyed because he can SEE me and hear me, and i can hear him."

If I had read that without hearing the following arguements, I would have assumed the same thing. Besides, he never actually said using a web cam was wrong. He simply stated that he never felt the need for one because we had the turst there.

I seriously doubt he was saying that you (jazz and WW) don't have a trusting relationship, but that he was comparing preferences and opinions. He was not critisising, just stating his point of view. Though, like perhaps he may or may have done with jazz's statement, you may have read too much into what he was saying and took it to be something that it really was not.

That being said, TG and I met onpine. It will be 5 years ago in January in fact. We used a chatroom and ICQ to chat back and forth. I had described myself to him before we met and never actually gave him a picture until he had to pick me out of a hundred different people at the airport. He believed that what I told him was the truth.

He was not saying that anything you are jazz was wrong, but perhaps making a general comment. He did not say you and jass did not trust each other, just that many do you use a cam as a tool to "make sure" people are doing as their told.

*shrugs* But like you all said, to each their own. No one was berating you for what you do so please do not jump on someone for stating an opinion that was not pointed at you, but simply following the thread of conversation. Had he thought that about yourself and jazz, he would have mentioned you specifically. Believe me, I know. I have known him for a long time and know when he is directly accusing someone of something.