Hi
Another subbie here to agree with FF and Kittenfemme..............

I am separated from my owner during the week, as I am working in Oxford at the moment and he is in London where I used to live with him 24/7 until a few months back. It was then that my ideal job came up and we decided that I had to accept it, even if it meant that we would be apart for five days each week.

In fact in some ways his domination over me seems more total now than it did when we were together. Yes, I know that sounds strange, but he keeps in touch via the phone, text messages and e-mail, and the amount of control he has over my non-working hours seems greater than previously Also there is psychological pressure on me NOT to let him down, and to make sure that I behave in exactly the way he wants me to when we are apart.

I suppose I am reasonably well trained (my owner might see that differently...................LOL) after three years of living with him, but it is a challenge to be on my own. There have been times when I have felt lonely, almost bereft, but I came to accept our situation and now I enjoy it. When he does turn up here, normally on Friday night, it is all fresh and wonderful.

We are not married and don't have children (yet), but I have proved to myself that a D/s relationship can flourish and grow in a 'part-time' context. So good luck, His Sweet Song - I hope you get as much pleasure and fulfillment out of your relationship as I have from ours

Love, Jane