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  1. #1
    Real Life Dominant
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    Sep 2006
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    Hello.. My name is Ben and am known as NCMaster. I am currently 57 years old and have been actively participating in this BDSM Lifestyle for over 20 years. I am married to My wife/slave and we are very active in the BDSM community in several states. I am also on the Board of Directors of one of the largest BDSM groups in the southeast.

    I often do presentations for local groups on various BDSM topics including M/s D/s relationships. I have a close knit Leather Family and enjoy teaching others about the Lifestyle. I am a big believer of each of us having a responsibility to the community. I have written on Lifestyle topics and some of these writtings can be found at the following sites:

    Edited - no ads for your web site within posts, please use the web master exchange at the bottom of the page or post a link in your signature - thank you

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  2. #2
    Ex gratia
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    Sep 2007
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    Texas
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    A Bit About Me

    While I made a modest introduction in the general introduction thread, I thought I might add one with a bit more detail here.

    General: I became interested in D/s a little over six years ago while dating a wonderful girl who in time revealed to me here interest and experience in the lifestyle. Our vanilla relationship was transformed into a D/s relationship after I had read a number of books and web sites that she recommended an we began to experient. Slowly and with great patience she helped me to learn to become an effective Dom who was able to meet her needs as a submissive woman. I learned rather quickly that I enjoyed a D/s relationship much more than any vanilla relationships I had experienced. We remained together up until a few months ago when her employer offered her a career advancing position on the West Coast. While neither of us were happy about going our separate ways, it was an opportunity that she was well suited for and one that I could not bring myself to ask her to pass up. I myself was for several reasons not in the position to relocate. Quickly we arrived at the place where we had to admit that the distance by which we are separated precluded continuing the relationship as it had been although we always remain close friends. Thus, my experience to date is within the context of that one r/l relationship.

    Lifestyle Interests: I have a wide range of interests within the lifestyle, some of which I have experienced and others that I hope to. I very much enjoy teasing and denial which I find to be very challenging. While I am not much of a sadist, I do very much enjoy spanking, flogging, etc. from more of an erotic viewpoint rather than from a desier to inflict pain. I do very much enjoy the transfer of power aspects and enjoy being in control. I like forced exercise activities and mild humiliation play. My former submissive and I had only recently began exploring water sports and I found that to be something I liked as well.

    Other Interests: I enjoy reading, travel, fitness pursuits, music, and outdoor pursuits like camping, backpacking and hiking.

    Goals: Honestly I am still quite attached to my former submissive and am not yet ready to become involved with another in a r/l relationship. First I feel it necessary to get past what I feel is a significant loss so that once I meet someone else, I can feel certain I am attracted to her for herself and not because I am trying to fill a hole left in my life. I have given thought to perhaps beginning with an online situation which would satisfy my own desire to remain involved in the scene and provide some outlet for it should such a circumstance present itself.

    Philosophy: To met all relationships, even D/s relationships are an equal partership. The Dominant leads because he/she has been gifted with the traits to do so however I consider submission to be a beautiful and valuable gift that should always be appreciated and treated with respect. Without someone willing to submit I can not exercise my dominance and in teh same way, my dominance provides the means by which someone can experience and enjoy their submissiveness. I feel that there is always much to be learned and that no one possesses all the knowledge. It is my belief that both dominants and submissives must make it there goal to learn and grow so that a relationship deepens and does not become stagnant.
    Audaces fortuna iuvat

    I lay down last night with your image in my thoughts, and have awak'd this morning in the same contemplation. The pleasing transport ith which I'me delighted, has a sweetnesse in it attended with a train of ten thousand soft desires, anxieties, and cares.

  3. #3
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    master From Thailand

    hi Dear,

    I am a bdsm master looking forword to hear from you.As I am a dominant,i would
    like to have total controll over you.I want to use whips and canes for all disobey made by my slave.
    she won't allow to do anything without my permission.
    I really want to see red welts on my slave's ass and thighs..
    If you can accept me as a master,you are most welcome to contact me

    bondage_master111@yahoo.com


    with love
    master

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    New and confused.

    My name is Rich. My sub and I are very new to this lifestyle and really need some direction as to how to begin. Can anyone out here tell me how to start making this new lifestyle work??

  5. #5
    Wild Viking
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    Lightbulb

    Hi everybody. I've been into BdSm my whole adult life. Growing up with Hom and Harmony. My main interest is bondage, but I've got experience with the most- Caning, whipping etc. The only absolute tabu I have is "toilet" play.

  6. #6
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    Hello

    I'm the plainsman, I've been a master for several years. Lots of cyber experience, but little in real life.

    I look at my self as someone who can introduce people to this lifestyle, but I choose not to collar slaves and totally control their lives.

    If I can be of service please don't hesitate to contact

    Plainsman

  7. #7
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    Lightbulb OwningXposed.

    I am OwningXposed, a derivitive of Cameras and exposing film.
    My sub and I are new to this, Mild pain, spankings, and rope fun.
    We are both 40 something.
    We basically discovered BDSM in the bedroom by accident. And enjoyed it.
    She is a good sub, but I am not a good Dom, yet. I need to get more assertive.

  8. #8
    Wears jolly boots of Doom
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    Greetings and salutations..

    I am Misschief, but My subs. know Me as Ms. Evangeline Byrne.. Lifestyle Top, not active in the 'scene' per se, but do audition slaves on a professional level and do fetish modeling..

    I have been actively practicing since 2000 in real life only.. Never had a cyber-pet..

    Power exchange, long-term ownership, behavior modification, etiquette training and roleplay are huge turn-ons for Me.. Also, leg and high heel worship; I have an insatiable fetish for thigh-high stockings, stilettos and corsets.. Love leather, allergic to latex..

    No brown showers, age play (young stuff), infantilism, etc..

    Expect My $.02 from time to time..

  9. #9
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    My name is Martin, and http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/me...57-Marlene38ee is my wife.
    In time, depending on how long it takes them to get it together, the other Mares and Fillies (Brianna, Lhana, Fumiko, Mei-Xing and Wanda) will be joining this site either with individual profiles, or a 'group' profile.

    I'm a long-time Dominant, with 20+ years of experience, and am still learning new things, refinements, and such.
    I did not ever intend to have a harem...but that's what happened. Brianna talked to Lhana, Lhana talked to Fumiko and Mei...Marlene talked with Wanda.
    Now, I have 6 women to care for, look after, love, and base my life around and on.
    I never intended such, but they all bring much to this Household and I am glad they're here.

    In regards to various devics and toys and such, I make a lot of my own. Then I KNOW they're made of proper quality materials and there's no potential of harm from a bad day on an assembly line, and the girls appreciate the time and effort that go into such.
    I am a Tempered Dom, meaning I adjust mood and harshness depending on how any of the girls behaves, but I'm not shy on caring and compassion., and they know they are safe undr my hand.

    It can be tricky balacing Life, Lifestyle and such with 6 women in the mix, but they understand that which does make things considerably easier.

    I'm pleased to meet you, my fellow Doms, and am looking fwd to reading your posts.

  10. #10
    dom 1964
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    Oct 2015
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    Re: Masters Please introduce yourselves here

    Hi am master D have been around this scene for over 15yrs now and am always here to answer any questions anyone might have i still dont consider myself an expert because i think every slave teaches a master something as the master teaches them.

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