There is an old saying. I don't know it word for word, but I will post the general idea of it.

If you love something, set it free. If does not come back, it was never yours to begin with, if it returns, it is yours forever.

I realize that you do not want to lose her but people need to grow as human beings, even slaves.

TG and I once had a submissive who was also collared to him. She was married but her husband knew about it. She waslike a sister to me. We talked about everything, loved each other dearly, and would do anything for each other.

However, at one point, she decided that it was time to move on. She loved us but she just needed something more or something less. It hurt to have to let her go but we had to. She just didn't feel like she could stay. We still talk to her and I still ove her dearly but our relationship in the D/s life kind of grew apart.

What I am saying is that if you truly care about her, let her go for these few months. If she does not come back, then it was not meant to be. It probably would have ended eventually anyway. At least this way it would be on nice terms. If you force her to stay with you, it could end in bitterness and anger.