i agree with maddie a 100%.....
i married young, when i was 18 but since i can remember i was "trained" to be domestic.
service can have alot of different meanings. we're pushing it more towards a definition under bdsm or more specifically D/s. but service exisit everywhere in the world.
every job i've ever had has been direct one on one customer serivice. my job's have always focused around providing a serivice for a paying customer. now some people do an average sort of serivce, merely completing their job, and getting their paycheck. i'm one of the few individuals in this world that takes pride in their job. i give a 200% no matter what the job is. from cleaning a person's toliet (golf resort housekeeper) to tossing fry baskets (mcdonalds) i provided the best possible service.
it's a desire to be perfect and to generally make sure the customer is happy. these people afterall, are my paycheck. alot of my jobs have been waitressing,so my money depends even more directly on the satisfaction of the customer.
this same idea exsist in D/s relationships. Instead of receiving money for your service (although that may actually be the case sometimes, hehe) you receive fullfillment of your desires and support for them. you should naturally desire to provide the best possible service for those you care about.
i have that natural inclination to do these things. i think that what makes up the essence of alot of submissives (not all mind you, but most i've met).
although i get all of really werid stares from people when they find out i'm married at my age (gasp!) but then, oh here's the kicker, i'm domesticated! (dramatic drumroll in the backround).
ok none of that probably made any sense......i've been awake since four am....i hate the darkness.....