I'm not ignoring your question vanillaslave. I did purchase some candles but although we see each other everyday, our chances for uniterrupted play are few and far between. We are both without children only every other weekend and it seems like half the time something comes up at the last minute to interfer.
When we do get those rare nights I'm like a kid in a candy store...wanting to try everything. I figure that between the forced oral, hair pulling, nipple torture, handcuffs, rope, baby oil, duct tape, gags, spanking, whipping, giant dildoe usage and forced anal...throwing in candlewax might be a bit much. After all, I don't want her to think I'm a pervert or anything!
I'm hoping to explore it this coming weekend. I'll be sure to report back!