Hello, princess.

And welcome! I used to blog a rather more than I do now; I slowed down as life sped up and I became less sure that readers found the stuff interesting. A couple years ago I posted a piece entitled "You know you may psychologists crazy, don't you?" As you toy with your sense of identity and belonging, you might find it helpful to realize that your "deviance" isn't terribly deviant and is, on whole, a signal of good health and a source of strong relationships.

It's certainly possible for us to screw things up in any relationship and in any set of life choices, but the simple preference for a power-exchanging relationship is not all at a bad thing.

For what interest that holds,

S.