Hi all , again with another question to pose to both subs and doms...
It was told to me by a Master i know that a good Mistress/Master never steps out of role. This was the sitch:
after a session my girl would be so exaughsted she could barely stand. sometimes would faint from the orgasm. she was also a squirter and would make a huge mess of herself. In these situations, i would clean her up after laying her down to rest. and then clean myself up.
Now i was told by doing that i was stepping out of role and a dom should never clean a sub or service her in that way. that she should clean me and then herself, no exceptions...
I Dissaggree completely. Because even if i enjoy dominating her, i do think that a big part of my role is to care for her and make sure she is safe and comfortable. so i do not think there is anything wrong with this.
I also was told that a Mistress is not supposed to be "romantic" but is a D/s relationship just that? a relationship. with all different sides and layers? do you always have to be harsh and demanding or can you be both?
demanding but flexible? romantic but kinky?

any thoughts are welcome.....thanks!