Let me stand beside you Tojo. Anyone who follows our O-on-demand thread can see (i hope) that fantassy and I are having a very fulfilling relationship. We are both providing what the other needs at this point in time, without additional complications. Now, whether either of us will require more in future is not the issue, but for now, fantassy provides all that I want from a relationship, and I strongly suspect that she requires no more also.Oh Oz, I respectfully disagree with that!
At one stage in my life (I am fossil material), we relied on radio (wireless) for our entertainment, then TV came along. In relationships we relied on physical presence, but then the internet came along. Now, I still listen to the radio and still like physical contact, but I certainly don't dismiss the new 'media' as inferior.
In reallife we have to accept compromises. but on the net, we can let our fantasies run free. Fantassy and I haven't even exchanged photos or even descriptions, let alone using a webcam - we just enjoy the interaction of the mind without any hangups from the physical world. I don't suggest that this would work for all, but for both of us, it is all we need to provide a very satisfying relationship for both of us.
Brosco