Hey everyone!

Alright, so I know this is a gaping hole in my sub experience, but it's just scared me for so long. Anyway, I love, love, love, love anal play. I admit it; I think it's a total turn on. I hate, hate, hate the gross poo mess that goes along with it.

I've been looking into enemas and I've read the threads on the forums here as well as the various enema information pages I found on google. They all, however, seem to say something different, and don't give specifics. Maybe that's because everyone is different, but I'm wondering about your specific experiences with enemas, if you don't mind sharing? *hopeful*

And some questions:
1. For straight cleaning back there, what solution is best? Water? Mild soap? (in my research, I've read that water, mild soap, and castille soap are the best - but everything says something else!)

2. For straight cleaning again, how long should the enema be held? How many enemas in a row should be given? (Again - one site says 3 minutes is fine. One says 15 minutes or longer. One site says one is enough, one site says you definitely need two...)

3. How bad is the cramping, really? I'm not a pain slut and this is really what's scaring me about trying one.

4. How long will it take to be back to normal? (Everything I've read seems to say that after an enema, the person will have to evacuate more than once... Is this something that I should have the whole day available for? Will I be pooping liquid poop for hours?)

5. How long do the 'benefits' last? If I want to play anally every day for a week, say, do I have to have an enema every day as well?

Sorry for all the questions; I promise, I did research before I asked these, it's just that everyone is giving different opinions, so now I'm casting the net wider for more opinions to try and get a consensus out of this. Thank you all!