Newbe question

[Strandman]

Hi all I hope you can help
My wife and I just started seeing another woman. Before this I noticed that my wife was interested in light bdsm and I kinda did a half hearted job. Now I find out this girl we are seeing was a sub for quite a while. Now I would like to do something to make them both happy. What do I do / how do I start. I would like to make the experience fun for both of them without screwing it up. Any help would be great. Thank you for your time

[_ID_]

Make them do a checklist. Find out what their fantasies and fears are. Once you are in their head, the ideas on how to make it fun, and scary, will just come to ya.

[denuseri]

Or better yet sit them down and actually talk to them.

[Lisais mine]

yeah, talking is good- besides, you dont have anyone to fool- your wife already knows you

[lordtony14]

is good to sit them down and allow them to speak, let u know all their desires, what they wish and what they like, have an idea about them before u accept them, that way u know u wont be dissapoint it if they tell u they are not into some stuff u want them to do