Trust

[TheseDays]

Trust. It's a very simple word. An even more complicated concept for some.

Trust. You need it for ANY type of relationship to be a positive experience.

Trust. It's one of the reasons that someone can allow themselves to grow with someone.

Why some people find the need to demand trust from you and then they themselves cannot supply said trust. Then there is an issue.

What I am getting at is this. A relationship of any kind can only exist when certain aspects of life are present. Trust, faith, love, respect, etc. It's all part of a grander plan. If you are able to put your self into someone's life. If you say the phrase "I love you". Which by todays standards gets tossed around many many times without a proper meaning. Then you better damn well mean what you say.

There is no benefit in leading someone along, there is no benefit in being a fake, a cheat, a liar. Ultimately it has a profound power to change peoples view of the one you hurt AND yourself.

So please. I ask of you all as a fellow life styler.

To simply do this. Cherish your friends, cherish your family, cherish the one(s) that you love. Cherish what is near and dear to your heart. Do not hurt others for your amusement.

Please. Just be true to yourself. True to who you are, what you are feeling what you are thinking. In whatever capacity that your allowed to "run" in.

All in all, be you, do not lie, do not cheat, do not fabricate stories.

Ultimately your every action has a profound action on yourself and the ones you associate yourself with.

Every actions has a consequence.

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Sorry for the random post but I needed to say this. Trust is such a HUGE issue for many relationships, it ultimately can lead to the end of one. So please. Do yourself a favor. Respect the one you love, the one you care for. Your family, your friends, your dominant, your submissive.

All n all. Do not be a fake. Do not lead people on.

BE TRUE TO YOURSELF.

Thank you.

*bows*

[dewran59]

Totally agreed with you Mr. Tomcat. Respect and Trust the people you love and care. Don't be sorry for your post...i admire people who can voice out of what they think...Thank you!!!

[Zarine13]

I totally agree with you.

If more people would be honest with themselves and others, the world would be a better place simply because people would be happier.

[Soaul]

Trust has two sides... e.g., I trust there are many mASSters who will not abide by the intent of this post.

Therefore, Trust, Respect and Honesty are key to a good relationship. Yet, one must trust, respect and be honest with ones Self first. Frequently, relationships fail because of the lack of these.

Once these are present, then trust, respect and honesty with someone else are needed for the possibility of a good relationship. Nothing ever guarantees good one.

[TheseDays]

Thanks for the replies all.

It's always nice just to get something said.

*bows*

[love2serve]

[QUOTE=Soaul;801090]Trust has two sides... e.g., I trust there are many mASSters who will not abide by the intent of this post.

I must agree with this Soaul, how can u expect a sub to totally submit to you if you cannot be totally honest with her (or him). Lies form a barrier, something which if left unresolved can break even the strongest relationships. It of course works both ways and so to prevent hurt all round honesty is really the best policy.

[Arria]

Wow. What a beautiful post. Thanks.