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    Question Snuff

    There are a few things that even in our open Community are only whispered about or we turn the blind eye to.

    One of the major ones being...Snuff.

    I don't get it. My reaction is always ...but considering there is an enormous amount of snuff stories and movies available on the net (and even in mainstream stores), maybe I am missing something...(its possible because I find most horror movies and grotesque things personally unpalatable).

    I think I understand the basic premise...it is fantasizing, and in extreme cases realization, of (sexual) play resulting in the death of one or more participants (almost always submissive).

    I consider myself opinionated, but rather tolerant person...my moral judgment compass being...each man has the right to live his life any way he wants, as long as he doesn't impede with that same right of others. How that translates to this lifestyle is- consent...for me sex games with those who are unable or unwilling to give consent (necrophilia, pedophilia, bestiality or zoophilia, r/l rape) have little to do with sex, let alone BDSM.

    Of course there are things that are just not my thing, things that I still struggle to comprehend fully and things that are way out there for me (extreme body modification and things that cause permanent harm, such as removal of teeth, ribs, healthy limbs...). My stance on these is to try to learn as much as I can and the old adage "to each his own, ".

    But snuff is a bit of a murky point. What do you think?

    On one hand, you have an adult, presumably able to make informed decisions about his or her own life - giving consent. And the only person "harmed" is themselves. Are they not entitled to make that decision?

    On the other hand, it seems completely crazy and devoid of common sense.

    When others tell me that they are prepared for snuff, if their Dom/me orders them so, it makes me concerned for their safety. I worry that they are setting themselves up for abuse, that some sick individual is going take advantage of them and I try to get the "be careful (to whom you give your submission and or obedience)" inside their head...but am I crossing the line (of what is essentially none of my business)?

    What are your views on this topic? How do you see snuff?

    If this is a fetish of yours...what is it that you find erotic or sexually gratifying (because I honestly don't see it)? Is it a way to romanticize death?

    Is snuff just another word for suicide?

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    Snuff.. what's not to understand about it? Its small pieces of tobacco and other herbs blended together that is sniffed up the nose...

    Oh, hang on... you mean the *other* type of snuff...

    Not heard much about this in the BDSM scene, and then only as stories rather than real life. Mostly only heard about it in horror videos. Of course one reason you may not have heard about it is the fact that it is horribly and totally illegal. IMO it also breaks all three elements of safe, sane and consensual (even if the person consents to being killed I am not sure should be possible to consent to your own death, it certainly isn't legally and morally it is a nasty area of personal freedom to explore).

    Having said that, of course, I am in favour of euthanasia because I think someone with a terminal illness who wants to die due to extreme pain should be allowed to do so with dignity rather than being forced to stay alive. Legally, even this would get the killer a life sentence for pre-meditated murder (though most judges seem to defer it to manslaughter due to the mitigating circumstances) However, consensual killing for pleasure of an individual or videoed for the pleasure of others? Not a chance...

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    this is a very good thread damnyanti, i hope someone with answers comes along. Im with you on this.

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    I'm interested in seeing responses as well. I honestly thought it was purely fantasy, I didn't know it was one that people actually put into action. (i feel like i should qualify "people", but I can't think of a p/c way to do so, so i won't)
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    I've never thought about this, Damyanti, but I have thought a lot about the limits of consent. Here's one way to think about consensual snuff. People on here seem to be pretty unanimous against sexual activity with children. Why is that? As we've seen on a number of threads, children can be very sexual creatures, and they certainly are people with preferences. Why on earth shouldn't they be allowed to consent to mutually pleasing sexual activities with adults? I assume that for many people, as for me, one of the reasons is that we believe that children simply are not capable of giving or withholding meaningful consent in this realm. We might feel the same way about someone who's temporarily impaired - very drunk, say, or under the influence of some other drug - or someone who's mentally impaired.

    So here's the thing - I don't need to make a case-by-case analysis of the sanity of someone who's willing to consent to snuff. I just don't. I'm willing to go out on a limb and say that anyone who "consents" to snuff is simply incapable of giving meaningful consent.

    Is there the possibility of a grey area? Sure, just as hypothetically there might be a young child who would be capable of consenting to sex with an adult. (In fact, in Margaret Atwood's Oryx and Crake there is a character who comes very close to this.) Someone posted on these threads a few months ago (I'm not giving names because I learned my lesson about this) about wanting to end the life of his terminally ill wife in one final scene of torture. I will say that most responses to this were not totally on board for the idea. But then he explained that his wife was in tremendous pain during the last days of her life, and he wished that he could translate that pain into something that she could bear and enjoy. Technically snuff? Maybe, although a minor point worth mentioning is that he didn't actually do it. But to me, this begins to seem like it falls into the area of assisted suicide rather than consensual snuff. So there might be a grey area. But just as with pedophilia, the possibility of some outliers is not enough to make me change the general rule. I think "consensual snuff" is simply an oxymoron.

    I really hope that people for whom this is a deeply cherished fetish will not be offended. I'm all for fantasies and people can have whatever fantasies they want. I'm not judging you, I'm not judging your sanity. To my mind, the fact that you're still here speaks for itself.

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    I thought - think - of myself as "normal" in relation to this website.
    I have a snuff fantasy. One that ocassionally I masturbate to. It deeply excites me.

    Would I ever do it? Of Course not!
    But I have come to believe that anyone is able to express their fantasies here.
    We know that they are fantasies and in the majority of cases will never come to fruition BUT this is the website to mentally live our fantasies.

    I guess maybe I am "strange" but I do have my own snuff fantasy.
    I thought everyone who is exploring their limits also had similar fantasies.
    I believe each of us has a fantasy that they will never share with others no matter how open the conversation may be.

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    There is a chasm between fantasy and actually carrying it out. I don't see any problems with discussing it but I do see problems with doing it.

    At a base level, death is sexy. A lot of people fantasise about it and this is why snuff exists. However, social mores are what hold us back from carrying out these fantasies.

    There is also a vast difference between what we fantasise about death and the process for real...

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    The idea of snuff is a huge turn-on for me, but only where I myself am considered.

    I think I would see it as an act of complete submission - that is what I like about the idea; there might be others who have different reasons.

    It has nothing to do with any suicidal tendencies for other reasons (I donīt believe in suicide as I believe we have more than one life, and whatever we donīt master in this life will be dished out to us again in the next life, and I would really like to get done as much as possible in this life *lol*).
    Itīs not a wish to die.
    It is a wish to give my life as a gift, to a person who loves and cherishes me, and whom I love and cherish in return.

    Of course, a person who loves and cherishes me would not wish me to die, and would therefore not do such a thing.
    Moreover, murder is still illegal around here, and I would not want the person who loves and cherishes me to first suffer my loss and then go to jail (I donīt believe one could get away with it, forensic methods are so advanced today...).
    These facts prevent it to begin with.

    Moreover, I have a son. And I think the well-being of a child should have a higher priority than fulfilling some kinky fantasy (if fulfilling said fantasy would influence the childīs life).
    If one takes a huge responsibility upon oneself (which raising a child is), it should not be pushed upon other people just because one has some sort of fantasy that would make loved ones suffer, in my opinion at least...

    So, I wonīt act this one out... however, if I never had had a kid, I donīt know if I would have seeked out a partner who would fulfill this fantasy for me.

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    I'm gonna go with MissConfused on this and admit to occasionally fantasizing about snuff. Usually, because I enjoy breath play (and not so much extreme pain), it revolves around being choked or suffocated to death.

    I'm not sure why it is so hard for you to understand (no offense) if you can understand why rape or other fantasies would be enjoyable. I mean... would you ever actually ACTUALLY want to get raped? By a disgusting deranged stranger? Okay, some would possibly say yes to this (and some would also possibly want to act out snuff)- but I think that many wouldn't.

    The idea is similar to the rape fantasy- it's a loss of control, someone forcing themselves on you. With me it's also the feeling of passing out. The feeling of impending doom. Mentally counting down until the man cums and I black out permanently.

    Now again, along with MissConfused, I would never act such a fantasy. Things that I can only do once don't have that much of an appeal to me :-P

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    No offense taken Veralynne...that's why I opened the thread, . On this, I admit, I am the odd one out, LOL, but while I do know and get rape fantasies intellectually, I never had any. Its a long story, but they hold no appeal to me. Also breath play, not my thing, I cant stand people touching, let alone choking my neck.

    Why I cant see it? Its rarely talked about openly (I did a search and couldn't find a thread dealing with it here, and nothing on Google either, unless you count what fetishdy mentioned about tobacco, LOL). Much like SauvagePouline I always thought its purely fantasy, and an extreme one for the rare few.

    For me there is nothing romantic about death, (again, the same long story, lol). It is a fact of life, it serves a purpose.

    I do understand what Arria means about ultimate submission and what people see in breath play/choking...why they find it enjoyable physically and why mentally (placing your life into the hands of another and toying with it...). I have no fantasy nor desire for it, but I can understand it (as much as anyone who isnt into something can understand it, lol).

    As for snuff...its death. As you say its permanent.

    I am of the firm belief that fantasies are a healthy outlet. And there is no reason why we should not fantasize about things we have no intention to realize. So I have nothing against that, and that's why I asked what people find appealing about it.

    The reason why I posted this question and what got me thinking is that in the relatively short time, I have been contacted by two different subs who both said that (it is not so much as fantasy of theirs as) they are prepared to do it if their dom/me asks for it and that they would welcome it. IMO they had a poor grasp on SSC, and it got me concerned for their safety and upset...my Dom friend said that they were most probably just messing with my head and making things up...it is certainly possible, especially for one, but the other I think, really meant it...and that got me thinking...

    Big thanks to everyone for their response. I hope people continue posting, as this has turned into a rather interesting (and educational) thread.

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    I didn't necessarily see Damyanti's post as questioning the fantasy as much as the occasional reality. I remember a news story about a guy in Europe who had cannibal fantasies, and found someone who shared them, and - well, finish the story yourself. His defense was consent, and as I recall it wasn't treated as first-degree murder, but I hope it wasn't because of the consent as much as, well, because they were both nuts. I haven't seen snuff threads here but there are some stories that get close to snuff. I just close them - not for me - but those are about unwilling victims. I can understand death as the ultimate loss of power and "giving" your death to someone as the ultimate surrender. As a fantasy.

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    Very interesting thread, all of you. I'm sometimes turned on by snuff motives but not as if it would be the fulfilment of being together or the only outcome of speaking your mind in an intolerable and unchanging situation. The first of those could be something like Sid Vicious and Nancy Spungen, the second could be a political martyr or perhaps even Christ - there are readings of the suffering and death of Christ where it's seen as a means of exposing something about evil rather than as a blood sacrifice.

    What you seem to be sketching Arria is something like Sid and Nancy or a woman accepting to be the patsy for a crime or protest that her lover actually did commit. I never found Sid and Nancy very inspiring, rather dreary, but it could feel intriguing to some, I recognize that.

    But if you suppose Sid were a real sadist and had actually tortured his girl-friend badly (which I don't think he did) and finally made her comply to die for him, then it gets harder to stomach, doesn't it? Sadistic snuff (not just killed, but tortured, perhaps raped and made to die in serious pain) feels like extreme degradation in my eyes, dehumanization. Sometimes the fantasy can feel thrilling to me, but mostly in a quick way I think. The ruthlessness and bluntness of it, the "we don't care for you" might feel a hot element, being led out manacled, whipped and hanged, but in reality it's the sort of thing I would never wish of course. I think this is one reason that including death in a role play has always felt tricky to me: when you're acting out a story or a scene with another, you're making them see things from the point of view of their character and if that person is cruelly put to death, it breaks the contract of fantasy in a way.

    I'll be watching Michael Haneke's Funny Games in the next few days - borrowed the dvd yesterday. It's a movie I've been walking in curves around for years, I remember when it appeared ten years ago but it sounded too scary to go to the pictures and watch, especially after I'd heard the audio of an important scene on the radio, and an interview with Suzanne Lothar, who played the mother in the film. Funny Games is about a family going to their country cottage and who get sneaked upon by two nice-looking, polite young men who knock on the door and ask if they could have a few eggs. Soon they have taken the family - two adults, a son and a puppy - hostage, shoved their cell phones in the water, cut the phone wires, tied the people up and are taunting them that they will probably die. What's more, they turn at the audience and propose a wager, inviting us to see if the family will survive - by this move and others, Haneke reinforced that movie violence is something that has a huge market value because it's a kind of wish-fulfilment (or even a means of soothing the fear of this kind of gore happening to you when some psycho knocks on your door?) We are accomplices in the theater. But why do we wish for it, identify with being there - it's not just us kinksters who do that - when we can see what happens is just shocking and awful? I had to see that film at some time, and I'll be posting a review.
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    Death is an extremely romanticized concept, no doubt about it. It is often referred to as the "ultimate sacrifice" in reference to a soldier giving his life for his country or the act of a parent protecting their child. It is the one thing we can give and never take back. It is more than our love, more than our power, it is the entirety of who we are - everything we were, and everything we were ever going to be.

    For those of us that have been to that place where we actually believed we were going to die, it is a place of revelation and insight. A powerful frame of mind, and significant whether you look at it from a religious standpoint of from a purely biological one.

    The fantasy, as others have touched on, I suspect is rooted in the notion of an all encompassing control over another human being in a permanent and irrevocable way. Or perhaps it's simply holding the infinite in your hands for awhile. Anyone that has held a life as it has passed on, whether it was an animal or another human being, I do not think can help but pause and feel the power of life in its emotional and soulful form coupled with its intense physical frailty. It's a heady cocktail when that all comes together in the final few moments.

    The experience stirs something, and in some people I guess what it stirs up is synonymous with sexual gratification. I like breath play myself (note to damyanti: I also HATE when people touch my neck or face so it is a significant sign of trust for me), but to me BDSM is not crushing the will of someone else, it is capturing and turning another's power to your will and combining the two for the benefit of both. It's not a single moment of instantaneous gratification, but the drawn out interactions of pleasure over time.

    Hence, snuff and Amber? Not my thing and I worry for those that consider it a worthy sacrifice just because their Master wants it. Frankly, it's harder to live for someone than it is to die for them, so unless death is in defense of another's life or an ideal that transcends your single life, then I think it's a little bit of a style without substance issue.

    My couple of cents, anyway. Okay, maybe three cents worth...

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    Is this a fetish of mine? NO. Is it something I fantasize about and want? NO.

    I absolutely agree that SSC is paramount, being tortured or abused to death holds no appeal.

    BUT

    Is it a way to romanticize death? Yes, that is one way to put it.

    One thing to keep in mind, Hubby and I have been together for years. We have been through a lot, but we always stood united and I have learned to trust Him. It has taken us years to get to this point! Is it romantic idyl every single moment of every day, of course not, but it is real.

    If He came home tomorrow and said He wanted to snuff me to be rid of me - yes, there would be snuff, but I wouldn't be the one lying in the casket. *weg*

    My Husband is older than I and prone to extreme sports and extreme living, and if something were to...

    The very idea of a life without Him seems like an unimaginable torment. If that were necessary, I would continue to function for the sake of our son, but I would stop living - and it has crossed my mind, that I would end up taking my own life.

    (If our son was of age) and either Him or I were diagnosed with something or something similar happened - As far as ways to die go, having Him "wring my little neck" isn't such a bad one, .
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    It is legally impossible (in most countries that I know of... though I admit there may be some where it is possible) to consent to any act that will cause harm to you. The only exception is medical consent and that comes under very strict guidelines and rules and you need to be a qualified physician to apply this exemption and have the procedure you plan to do approved and risk assessed by your ethics committee.

    Not sure what happened at the end of the German cannibal trial. If he did get away with not being charged with first degree (apart from the fact that we don't have a concept of first degree murder in European courts - we don't differentiate it as much as American courts do, its either murder or manslaughter) then it was probably due to some concept of diminished responsibility. Either there was an appeal of insanity by the defense or the prosecution realised that there was better chance of a conviction if the manslaughter charge was pressed over the murder charge. Either way, I doubt it was due to the concept of consent. If anyone knows more details I would be interested in finding out what happened.

    As for the two subs... yes, that is concerning. My main concern is that they are too naive. They are offering more than they may fulfill in real life and that is never good for any BDSM relationship. Major safety concern, especially if they come across someone predatory pretending to be a Dom...

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    Quote Originally Posted by gagged_Louise View Post
    But if you suppose Sid were a real sadist and had actually tortured his girl-friend badly (which I don't think he did) and finally made her comply to die for him, then it gets harder to stomach, doesn't it? Sadistic snuff (not just killed, but tortured, perhaps raped and made to die in serious pain) feels like extreme degradation in my eyes, dehumanization.

    That is the first thing that comes to my mind when someone says snuff...others brought some other versions of snuff and I can sort of see where they are coming from and if a person is of sane mind, who are we and do we have the right to order or even tell them how to live or end their own life? But if it were someone really close to me, I would probably cringe and revert to questioning if those (as rachel06 said) who "consents" to snuff are simply incapable of giving meaningful consent.


    Quote Originally Posted by gagged_Louise View Post
    Sometimes the fantasy can feel thrilling to me, but mostly in a quick way I think. The ruthlessness and bluntness of it, the "we don't care for you" might feel a hot element, being led out manacled, whipped and hanged, but in reality it's the sort of thing I would never wish of course. I think this is one reason that including death in a role play has always felt tricky to me: when you're acting out a story or a scene with another, you're making them see things from the point of view of their character and if that person is cruelly put to death, it breaks the contract of fantasy in a way.

    ...thank you for explaining it in such a great way, it clarifies a little what others see in it...but from a personal level I see nothing thrilling about it. Cruelty and dehumanization do nothing for me, but horrify and frighten me.


    Quote Originally Posted by DowntownAmber View Post
    ...to me BDSM is not crushing the will of someone else, it is capturing and turning another's power to your will and combining the two for the benefit of both. It's not a single moment of instantaneous gratification, but the drawn out interactions of pleasure over time.

    Hence, snuff and Amber? Not my thing and I worry for those that consider it a worthy sacrifice just because their Master wants it. Frankly, it's harder to live for someone than it is to die for them, so unless death is in defense of another's life or an ideal that transcends your single life, then I think it's a little bit of a style without substance issue.
    Great post Amber and this part mirrors my own view.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fetishdj View Post
    If anyone knows more details I would be interested in finding out what happened.
    If you really want the gory details, here goes: The guy (Armin Meiwes) is called "Der Kannibale von Rotenburg" (the cannibal of Rotenburg). He cut off and ate the victims' genitals and filmed it too. The guy who got killed was not terminally ill but severely depressed.
    He was convicted of "murder to satisfy his sexual desires" and got a life sentence. An appeal to the Bundesverfassungsgericht (the highest court in Germany) was turned down on October 24th this year.

    Lifelong in Germany means: He may get out in 15 years if by then he is not considered to be dangerous anymore.

    (FAZ, 24.10.2008 FAZ

    So he was convicted of murder, even when the other gave his consent to being killed. Unfortunately i didn't find out with what arguments he appealed to Germany's constitutional court.

    As for the rest: Very interesting thread; until someone told me of their fantasy a week ago i didn't even know that people had such fantasies. The only time i heard about snuff was in a movie with Nicolas Cage but that's a movie. At least i hope it doesn't happen in reality.

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    re:snuff

    I cannot even begin to comprehend, or even imagine the thought of 'snuff'.
    I have heard of it on a few occassions, and the thought that even a sane minded individual could even want to end their own life actually makes me very, very scared for them, but then again alas this is my own opinion, I cannot judge, though it is hard at times.
    I watched a documentary about assisted suicide, and this is an ongoing debate which is currently raging through parliment, even the Prime Minister has spoken about it. I know snuff is a differnt matter, but it is alongside suicide(asst), it is still death.
    It's okay to have fantasies, after all i'm sure we all have them, but to actually carry death etc into reality, is the idea of a worst night mare, how scary.
    No matter how/and when it might be carried out, but this is just my own opinion.

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    I get turned on by the thought (and thought only) of some pretty extreme torture, but still I don't see the point in talking it farther. However, I had an online exchange with a lady who said her fantasy was to be impaled on a pole, and if she had a choice on how she would die, that would be the way. The first time in my life I have been "out-kinked."

    I'm not sure I've ever heard of a real life case of snuff. It seems in most cases the rapist wants the victim dead (ie ex wife, murder for hire, or plain hatred), unable to identify him, for some other purpose that requires her to be dead (canibalism or other use of body parts), or it happens unintentially (going too far with a choking, beating, etc) It seems to me at least, that the idea of death for sexual satisifaction has some appeal to our brain like many other urban legands.

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    I have never tried snuff are even thought about it in my own play, only read about it. There has got to be however people out there that due it.
    I met one master in real life once in Scotland. We want back to mine and he showed me what he was into. It was videos of snuff men and woman alike. Being killed in different ways some had there heads cut off and you could still hear the body trying to get air into the lungs. While I ran to the toilet to though up, he watched a video of a woman being beaten to death.
    When i asked him he loved the fantasy, the power to take a subs life but he said he would never try it in real life.

    In my mind snuff for some people is a fantasy, a dangerous one if they decided to carry it out.

    I think it’s like the BDSM's demon brother it’s connected to us and whispered about in the darkness. But if we where to try it in the civilized world, that we live in. It would mean jail time and harder laws on BDSM. Nobody wants that.

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    one question that leaped out at me while reading this is why would a master ask a sub to consent to snuff? i get euthanasia, but why would any person wish someone who has the rest of their life ahead of them to consent to ending it? especially as the dom, to be their master/owner has to have put effort into the whole relationship so some tender feelings have to be there?!?!?! just somethig leapt out at me. i know people all have their own views, im not trying to put down any one persons fantasies but yeh just a question to add to the multitude already on this post!

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    Lucy: Thanks for that info.

    Life in most European countries is 10-20 years but is sometimes more depending on severity. While we don't formally differentiate into murder one etc there is an informal system in place which judges occasionally refer to when making an arbitrary decision about sentencing

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    One question I have for everyone;
    If you knew your body and soul would be restored twenty four hours later would you do it?
    You will have still experienced being tortured and killed and that memory will remain with you forever

    If you could experienced being snuffed knowing that your
    death would not be permanent would you do it?

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    you're very welcome, fetishdj

    @MissConfused: that would be missing the point of being killed. What makes killing (be it yourself or someone else) so ... damn, can't find the words here... extreme, unique, taboo, final is the fact that there is no way back. Never. Ever. No more choices, no more decisions, no more of anything (well ok, there are other concepts of afterlife, concepts that give one choices and possibilities but i don't believe in those concepts as long as i didn't experience them myself)
    With the possibility of resurrection on the next day killing somebody for pleasure is just some kind of playing. Still way too extreme for me, but after all only playing.

    @efwb2: i wanted to ask if those movies you mentioned were real, but after thinking about it i prefer not to know...

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissConfused View Post
    One question I have for everyone;
    If you knew your body and soul would be restored twenty four hours later would you do it?
    You will have still experienced being tortured and killed and that memory will remain with you forever

    If you could experienced being snuffed knowing that your
    death would not be permanent would you do it?
    That's another really good question. I don't think I can give a definite answer, but if we'll suppose this knowledge that you will be restored (and without any broken bones, just some momentary pain) was with me before but somehow blocked out once they started torturing me hard, so that I thought I was going to die permanently then hesitantly yes. But I wouldn't see it happening as some kind of "lust murder" by a lover, more in the kind of context I was onto in my post: captured in wartime or during a rebellion, taken prisoner by pirates in the old days, or something like that. And the people who did it or watched it would think I was being done in for good too, and would jeer at me. hoot that I was gonna die like scum (yikes!)

    I agree with Lucy that the idea that death might ever be reversed and your body and soul restored after 24 hours somehow misses the point of asking if it's hot to consider death, seen as a final act of sacrifice, humiliation or just of being snuffed out non-con, butchered, so that's why one would have to be thinking one were killed for good and face that destiny. But since the only part of this that turns me on is as liminal fantasy - and not very often - I think the question works for me. I've never seen a real "snuff movie" of somebody being mutilated and beaten to death - even if it would only be acting - and the idea revolts me.

    Maybe this is the kind of vicarious thrill we get from seeing some kind of suspense movies where the heroine is bound and knows she is about to be tortured and killed - of course in the film she escapes 99 times out of 100. I couldn't point out just how strongly this connects with my submissive side, some of the actions are the same only harsher, but the setting is so different from what I would ever really wish a lover to do to me.

    The scene in The Count Of Monte Cristo where Dantčs escapes by changing place with the dead body of Faria, and his swathed body suddenly has a heavy cannonball bound to it at the feet and he's hurled over the cliff into the stormy sea - it's always been fascinating to me. It has a Hitchcock-like feeling, this is really a borderline scene, and of course his escape is quite implausible, but so what...

    I wouldn't want to be walking around in fear that it would happen again - well, do I have to stress that? So this is a really hypothetical question, but a good one.
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    When i say I've never seen a real snuff scene of someone being beaten or stabbed to death, it's with the exception of heavily choreographed scenes (Errol Flynn, Bruce Lee etc) that don't try to look truly realistic and gritty. There is a scene in the movie The Passenger (1975), starring Jack Nicholson, of a man being bound to some gas barrels and shot by African guerillas; I've seen it. That one is supposed to be genuine footage of a real execution, it's unclear whether the film team took it themselves or they were handed it by someone but they were filming in a part of West Africa where guerilla warfare was going on, and it fitted into the story.
    I did not see The Passion of the Christ.

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    For people who want to gauge hoiw they feel about these ideas and at the same time see a very good movie, Carl Dreyer's The Passion of Joan of Arc is an outstanding study in interrogation, pressure on a woman who knows she might die, and final willing sacrifice at the stake. It was made in 1928 so it's a silent movie (reissued on dvd), but the camera work and acting are extraordinary - the facials of the cleric judges ringing Jeanne are wonderful, and the final pyre scene is very impressive and a great climax to the film.

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    Some of the fight scenes in Fellowship of the ring have real blood in them from the stuntmen and Viggo Mortensen playing a bit rough... but thats the closest I have ever come to watching a real snuff film

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    Quote Originally Posted by fetishdj View Post
    Some of the fight scenes in Fellowship of the ring have real blood in them from the stuntmen and Viggo Mortensen playing a bit rough... but thats the closest I have ever come to watching a real snuff film

    Some of the elven princes and knights in LOTR looked like hard rockers didn't they? I would have liked to watch when the guys in the heavy metal band Gwar went to their company bosses dressed up as vikings with battle axes, horned helmets and guitars and tossed pig blood on the bigwigs...

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    You know what makes me really sad? The ending of The Story of O. And even though she's not "snuffed" by someone else in the end, in a way she's snuffed by the story line. She's so dehumanized in the end that there's really no one there. I know this is exciting to some people, just not to me.

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