Dreams

[Aeneas]

I've got a question I have not seen addressed. Men have "wet dreams" from time to time, depending on age and actual sexual activity. During the dream, which usually aren't remembered, erections happen and many times orgasm occurs and semen is released during sleep. My question is two fold. First, for men, if you remember any of the details, do they ever include Dom/sub or BDSM images? The second part is for women. Do any of you have sexual dreams that reach the point of orgasm (which I would think would awaken you)? Even if you do not climax, when you have sexual dreams that you remember, do they include D/s or BDSM images?

The topic may seem weird, but would any feedback.

[GaryWilcox]

I've got a question I have not seen addressed. Men have "wet dreams" from time to time, depending on age and actual sexual activity. During the dream, which usually aren't remembered, erections happen and many times orgasm occurs and semen is released during sleep. My question is two fold. First, for men, if you remember any of the details, do they ever include Dom/sub or BDSM images? The second part is for women. Do any of you have sexual dreams that reach the point of orgasm (which I would think would awaken you)? Even if you do not climax, when you have sexual dreams that you remember, do they include D/s or BDSM images?

The topic may seem weird, but would any feedback.

For me, it usually has to do with an unexpected sex partner... like an interracial encounter with a coworker in her late forties when I was in my late twenties. They're vivid as hell and they don't play out like any kind of fantasy, they're filled up with moments of aggressions and insecurity and release, just like the real thing.

I theorize I actually have sex dreams often... but, I only remember the wet ones, though, and those are once every ten years or so.

[ProjectEuropa]

The topic may seem weird, but would any feedback.

I never had any for years, from what I can remember, probably not since my adolescence and then I suddenly had several during my last meaningful relationship. I never thought of them as having anything to do with insecurity but Gary has just put the thought in my head that they might. There was no outward sign of BDSM but they were very much about domination I suppose, hmm maybe just pure aggression would be a better description. I was very much in control and doing what the hell I liked with my dream partner who was the person I was having a relationship with.

I remember a couple of vivid sequences, one where I was anally fucking her from behind and had her face pushed up against a mirror so she could see just how sexually angry I was. I presume if it was real she would feel how sexually angry I was. Another sequence I remember making my partner watch as as I performed a whole reportoire of sexual acts on an anonymous lover. Another where I watched my partner be taken by two or three men who at some point disappeared and I found myself, well, fucking the hell out of her mouth I guess.

They were always very intense, very vivid and very aggressive and I enjoyed them so much I tried to hold onto the dreams once I woke up.

[redEva]

Dreams!

I love dreams, I love dreaming, now if I could only master lucid dreaming – but than again, maybe no … who would get me out of the dream land than?!

As far as wet dreams go, I can not speak for other ladies, but I never really reached that point of release while in a dream. Mostly dreams get me very aroused, and I wake up excited but in a state of almost frustration – chasing the unreachable.

There were 2 dreams that were most powerfully erotic (that I can remember).

First one involved no sex, and started with me entering a “WHITE” room – it was one of those nowhere places – where everything was white. In the room, more of a place I should say, was nothing but most beautiful, powerful biggest white tiger. He was waiting for me, lying relaxed, looking at me. The dream was full of extremely powerful feelings: fear, curiosity, attraction, respect, love, trust …. Dream ended with me laying next to the purring tiger, feeling all this muscle and strength under the fur. I woke up feeling one of the most powerful highs and it was as much sexual as anything else.

Another time I was on the sandy beach and ended up in one of those blue-and-white striped tent change-rooms, getting the blow job of a life time from a beautiful young man. I was standing and could see my raging hard-on, glistening with his saliva sliding in and out of his month. If I actually had the organ in real life – I imagine this would have ended up as a nice wet dream!

[alexandra_p27]

Dreams!

I love dreams, I love dreaming, now if I could only master lucid dreaming – but than again, maybe no … who would get me out of the dream land than?!

To start lucid dreaming is very difficult but if you keep in touch it normally gets better soon. There are many sites provoding information about techniques
like dreambooks, checking your state of consciousness and so on..
(sorry for my bad english)
The ability to lucid dreaming doesn't alter so much between people then for example the ability to get hypnotized. If you try you should make progress soon.

One of my favourite "dream-themes" is to be exposed in public in the nude. I often run through strees , shopping centers and so on.
The advantage of getting concious in dreams is that you can control your emotion. I sometimes have such dreams and don't even realize them as highly erotic while dreaming. This changes very soon if I get control.

[Movito]

I had those dreams, and they always contained something about Fetish, if not BDSM. For you other statement - I always remebered what brought me to Orgasm, and some of those dreams are still vivid in my memory - even after years.

[alexandra_p27]

Here is a site with a lot of links to lucid dreaming and other dream-topics, some more some less serious.

In the beginning you should start by writing a dream diary. In the beginning
it is often hard to remember dreams, but if you write them down directly
after waking up, it will become easier with every day.
When you go through the process of learning lucid dreaming, dreams will
become much clearer and you will remeber them much better and much
more detailed.

http://www.dreamgate.com/dream/resou...ne_e.htm#lucid

[redEva]

Thank you for your response ... I am looking forward to explore those links

[MrJerseyGuy]

I don't have dreams...I have nightmares. But I think I jerk off so much I need the night to refuel!

[MyladyChris]

I've got a question I have not seen addressed. Men have "wet dreams" from time to time, depending on age and actual sexual activity. During the dream, which usually aren't remembered, erections happen and many times orgasm occurs and semen is released during sleep. My question is two fold. First, for men, if you remember any of the details, do they ever include Dom/sub or BDSM images? The second part is for women. Do any of you have sexual dreams that reach the point of orgasm (which I would think would awaken you)? Even if you do not climax, when you have sexual dreams that you remember, do they include D/s or BDSM images?

The topic may seem weird, but would any feedback.

I do have many so called wet dreams...that have included BDSM related themes and tones. i have been close to climax but unfortunatley never experience one that woke me up...although it has sometimes been VERY close

[Blue_Monday]

I still remember my very first sex dream... I was 12 years old. I was in a white dress, being molested--not unpleasantly--by a much older man in his limousine. Of course, it was years before I understood the fantasy!

It's been a few years, but in my early 20's I used to frequently have sex dreams that would bring me to orgasm, and I would usually wake up shortly after I came. Now I'm getting enough of the real thing that I don't have any "extras" sitting around unusued!

Interestingly, I could come in my dreams--without being touched, of course--long before I learned to masturbate. I've heard of women being able to "think off"... I wish this were something I could master in real life.

[Fairy Tree]

I dream all night long, and I usually remember 2 or 3 of them at least. I know they say you dream in black and white and color only come from your memory of color(?) To me that means your dreaming in color....But, my dreams are very colorful and very lucid, I remember every detail...good and bad. My sexual dreams, which usually happen at least once a month, always bring me to orgasm and wake me up. These orgasms are very powerful and explosive and last twice as long as normal ones do!! Sometime I see my partner, sometimes I dont, sometimes it's just me, and sometimes I'm not even being touched at all. That probably stems from being able to orgasm by just having my nipples sucked though.