Average Penis size

[BruceBoxer]

Tiz true sarah--and the same goes for breasts--all else being equal--I prefer big with huge nipples. Strangly tho, I find there is never an occasion when ALL else is equal--I've gladly traded huge mammaries for wit, caring, delicate voice, red hair, long fingers (a strange fetish of mine) and a willingness to toss inhibitions out the window. With those qualities, flat chested is fine by me. I hope fellow readers, you can see my point--physical attributes are indeed a part of the package but, when the tally is counted, a relatively unimportant part and I think I shan't be reading or contributing to posts on this or similar topics anymore. It pisses me off to tell you the truth--few things do but for reasons known but to me I suppose, this topic does.

Originally posted by sarah72
The question here is, with all factors equal (brain, attitude, general looks, etc) and the choice of a 5” or an 8” cock (proportionally thick), what would one choose? Well, I would go for the 8” (and I think 9 out of 10 other women) would do the same. With the 5”, you get fucked, with the 8”, you also feel fucked!! And this becomes drastically more emphatic in other than vaginal penetration..

[mica]

Just wanted to add to all the confusion.
Length? Yes it can be a good thing. But how about girth?
There are skinny ones, there are fat ones. Most average 1 1/2 to 2 inches thick.
Of course some are 3 inches or more.
It is very pleasing for a woman (yes, I took a poll) if they are around 2 to 2 1/2 inches thick.
From my experience, as a very sexual woman, I can tell you this:
If a man doesn't know how to use his penis to please a woman...
It really doesn't matter what size he is.
Oh yes,some don't.

[LadyAmanda]

I have to say, one of my most memorable male lovers had nothing much going for him - if you know what I mean!

But god, did he make up for it with his tongue action I have never met such a talented mouth; just the thought of it gets me wet!

[mica]

Well I can relate there, cause only one guy that can make me cum that way

[InnerTemptress]

imo, the true test to know what a woman is looking for in cock size is to look at her vibrator collection.

[Jemal]

Well, I've read a lot of discussions here as to what 'average' size ACTUALLY is...

Why don't we do a study of our own? Perhaps a poll of all the Male members. (Pun intended).

I know lots of guys feel insecure when expressing size, but if we made it a poll, there's not much way of figuring out who voted which one..


Also maybe a poll of the ladies to see what's they're prefered size.

What's everyone think?

[Kostly]

Good Idea... Ill create it if its not done already

[pam]

Be sure to have 2 polls

1. Actual penis size

2. Actual Internet penis size

The latter is generally 50% larger than it appears

[drake7]

pam wrote:

Be sure to have 2 polls

1. Actual penis size

2. Actual Internet penis size

The latter is generally 50% larger than it appears

One of the things that really bugs me about the internet is the pervasiveness of lying about this or that. The internet is truly a place where people are listened to or not listened to based solely on the strength, or weakness, of their words, thoughts and ideas. Even something as trivial as penis size exaggeration is just one example of a widespread problem. Exaggeration is becoming the norm. Lying is so expected that the truth becomes irrelevant.

As to any type of poll... the only one that I would find reliable would be a poll of what women want as far as penis size/shape. The women I have been with have expressed a variety of opinions, but I think I am pretty much average. So that would lead me to believe that women just prefer a certain size/shape penis just as men tend to prefer a certain size/shape breast.

-Drake.

[Kostly]

Originally posted by drake7
pam wrote:


One of the things that really bugs me about the internet is the pervasiveness of lying about this or that. The internet is truly a place where people are listened to or not listened to based solely on the strength, or weakness, of their words, thoughts and ideas. Even something as trivial as penis size exaggeration is just one example of a widespread problem. Exaggeration is becoming the norm. Lying is so expected that the truth becomes irrelevant.

As to any type of poll... the only one that I would find reliable would be a poll of what women want as far as penis size/shape. The women I have been with have expressed a variety of opinions, but I think I am pretty much average. So that would lead me to believe that women just prefer a certain size/shape penis just as men tend to prefer a certain size/shape breast.

-Drake.

Ok First...

I couldnt agree more

BUT

I am an EVIL, EVIL man and a "TROUBLE MAKER", so I must present the opposite view even though I dont agree with it... so Here it goes...

The internet is a wonderful place to express fantisy. You can go onto the internet and be whoever you want to be. You can be SuperMan or you can even be Lois Lane... What ever floats your boat, and who really cares what the results and problems that you create through your lies.

[pam]

Originally posted by Kostly

What ever floats your boat, and who really cares what the results and problems that you create through your lies.

Bullshit



I've had more friends hurt by liars on the Internet than you'd believe. The sheer number of married jerks pretending to be single would astound you (maybe not).

I had one moron try to come on to me the other day by bragging about his status in Special Operations in the miliary. He 'could' have hurt me badly if I wasn't so jaded

People do care about the lies, because someone inevitably is hurt.

But yes, you can be what you want on the Internet.

[Kostly]

Please dont hurt the message carrier.. for I too have been hurt more times then I can count on all of my fingers and toes by liers on the internet.

These dishonest Fuckers deserve to rot in hell..

[petpleasureyes]

When i was younger, i read a report in a magazine concerning average cock size which stated the average cock size was about 6 inches long, this was probably 20 years ago. i read another similar report only a few years ago that stated the average cock size was 5 inches. i can't remember what magazines these were in, i think the second report may have been in Maxium magazine, but not sure. i also read an article i found fascinating concerning how men and women measure a man's penis differently. A man, who's attached to the penis (of course) will pull his cock forward away from his body and measure his penis from the top placing the ruler against his belly at the base of his penis and measure it to the tip. A woman, however, who'll be standing in front of a man will normally measure a penis differently, she'll measure it from the outside, placing the ruler at the base of a man's penis starting where it protrudes from the man's testicles to the tip of the cock. There's a difference of usually an inch between these two methods and strangely enough, the man (who's normally more concerned about his cock size) uses the method that produces the smaller size number. For me, after reading this post, i'm just curious to see which method most people here use (top or bottom measuring method). For me who's used both of these methods since reading about them (i used to use the first method only myself) i get a result of 7 1/2 inches using the first and 8 3/4 inches using the second. Now neither of the statistics i read concerning cock size mentioned which method was used (and that's important to know, i think, considering that there are 2 methods), especially considering the difference in the average size. Either they used a different method each or men's penises have gotten shorter over the past 20 years. Also, i'm sure who volunteered to participate in each of these studies also effected the results. Maybe if all male members (no pun intended) were to post their cock sizes (hopefully honestly) using each method i mentioned, then we could add up the numbers and divide it by the number of participants and come up with our own statistic. Sound interesting?

[Nightstriker]

*Walk in tries to reach thread with the 10 foot pole and fails.*

Damm

Ok here is what I have found out on this specific subject.

First off yes I have mesured my dick and I am just about 7.5 cm that is 5 inches long for those who use the imperal system.

I have also measured the diamater of my dick and I span 2.2 inches accross that is about 5.5 cm.

From all of the reading that I have done and the various people that I have talked to on these things length is not what matters. Scientifically speaking a woman only feels about 4 inches from the opening of her pussy. So anything else is just extra, "dead" meat.

This is just what I have herd.

[petpleasureyes]

i've never really worried about the size of my own penis. The truth of the matter, it's how this tool is operated and not it's size that matters. You can have someone with a 26 inch dick, but if he tries to pop that sucker in and comes before the first 2 inches are inserted, well...you get my meaning.

[redEva]

*Walk in tries to reach thread with the 10 foot pole and fails.*

Damm

Ok here is what I have found out on this specific subject.

First off yes I have mesured my dick and I am just about 7.5 cm that is 5 inches long for those who use the imperal system.

I have also measured the diamater of my dick and I span 2.2 inches accross that is about 5.5 cm.

From all of the reading that I have done and the various people that I have talked to on these things length is not what matters. Scientifically speaking a woman only feels about 4 inches from the opening of her pussy. So anything else is just extra, "dead" meat.

This is just what I have herd.

i sure hope you bit longer than 7.5 cm cause your conversion chart is a bit off (1 cm = 0.3937 in) which would put you just short of 3 inches. On the other hand if you did measure correctly and your diameter is 2.5 inches I’m impressed - that is the size of average man wrist

[slavelucy]

Also, i'm sure who volunteered to participate in each of these studies also effected the results. Maybe if all male members (no pun intended) were to post their cock sizes (hopefully honestly) using each method i mentioned, then we could add up the numbers and divide it by the number of participants and come up with our own statistic. Sound interesting?

Oh cripes - no offense, but no, it doesn't sound all that interesting, it sounds interminably dull to me. The whole cock size thing, with, horror of horrors, MATHS thrown in - noooooo!

But alas, maybe that's just 'cause i'm a girlie (and one that's shit at maths at that!).

sl

[drake7]

I haven't ever actually measured the size of my penis. Other than like, "Well it seems to fit in my hand/her hand/[other unspecified region]"

Is there a correlation between performance and size or is it a visual thing? I tend to be attracted to women with larger breasts, as most men are I think, but I am experienced enough to know that the size of a woman's breasts are not a good indicator of her profiency in bed. They may turn my head but that's about all. So do women just like the way a larger penis looks or is there a performance difference?

Drake.

[Fanny Warmer]

I've measured and come in at 7.5 inches, that works out to 12 inches Canadian

Seriously though about three months ago my GF said to me 5 simple words that made my day "Your big enough for me". She has some pretty serious toys and can accommodate girth to an extreme but can't accommodate more than 8 inches in length without experiencing severe pain (cervix getting in the way???).

While we were surfing the net we discovered a picture of two men banging a woman's pussy at the same time. She didn't say she wanted such a scene but I could tell by the look in her eyes that she was aroused. That night I managed to work her 8 inch dildo into her and then squeeze myself in next to it as I mounted her. She nearly bucked me off the bed and let out some significant guttural sounds. She did not, however, have an orgasm as the position we were in offered no clitoral stimulation ( a necessity for her). After I had my way with her I brought her off using my fingers on her little love button. She confessed the sensation was very intense but she was much more interested in cumming that being stretched to an extreme.

I went to a Mott the Hoople concert way back in '73 (I think). Ian Hunter told a story about the guitar player getting ready to mount some babe at an after concert orgy. The girl said, as she looked at his penis, "Who do your going to satisfy with that little thing?" the guitarist answered her with one word "ME!"

I and (I think) my GF both agree with the old adage "A fool with a tool is still a fool".

[allalone46]

Never hered of a woman that can take a 14in in her, I don't think any woman could take more than 6in unless it was just after she gave berth, and she is still streched inside from the fetise.

[Fanny Warmer]

Never hered of a woman that can take a 14in in her, I don't think any woman could take more than 6in unless it was just after she gave berth, and she is still streched inside from the fetise.

Hi alalone46,

I guess your responding to my post. Perhaps you misunderstood. When I entered her it was next to the dildo not behind it (girth not depth). If I pushed it that far in the head of it would probably lodge somewhere in her lungs.

Since you bring up the subject of babies I usually cringe when somebody announce a new birth, 8.6 lbs and 18 inches long or something like that. Why don't they say 18 inches tall?

[Curtis]

Since you bring up the subject of babies I usually cringe when somebody announce a new birth, 8.6 lbs and 18 inches long or something like that. Why don't they say 18 inches tall?

Uhm, I guess because, until it's a walking, it isn't tall, it's long. The height of a newborn would only be four or five inches, because it can't stand up.

[MrJerseyGuy]

All I know is that mine has always been big enough to please me!

[petpleasureyes]

i had a best friend (female) in college who had me set her up with this guy in one of my classes who she thought was hot. A week or so later she came and asked me for advice on how to break up with him. i asked her what was up, had he hurt her or something. She finally confessed that the guy had the smallest penis she'd ever seen, she swore it was only 2 inches long when hard - she said she couldn't even feel it inside her when they slept together. She wanted to break up with him, but also not hurt his feelings because he was such a nice guy. i let her make a confession to the guy that her and i were both in love and had been keeping our love secret for so long not wanting to break up our friendship. It worked, but i did feel sorry for the guy because i'm sure he knew the lie and most likely had gone through this many times. i don't know how much surgery could do for him because from everything i've read, at the most only between 1 to 2 inches can be gained from such an operation. But i guess 3 or 4 inches is better than 2.

[allalone46]

And that is why if the guy is bigger than 4-6in a woman can't take all of him. So size doesn't always mater. Those oversized guys can't do any better than a average size, and than he can't do as well. Like my Dad always told me it isn't the size of the hook but how you wiggal the worm.

[fetish101]

And that is why if the guy is bigger than 4-6in a woman can't take all of him. So size doesn't always mater. Those oversized guys can't do any better than a average size, and than he can't do as well. Like my Dad always told me it isn't the size of the hook but how you wiggal the worm.

that's probably true for some, maybe most women, but I have 7-8 inches (depending on however you measure it) and it all fits in there..

the real measure is the radius or circumference of the penis.

[Kallie Thomas]

The vagina cannot accommodate 7-8 inches. However, it feels as though the entire length is in because there's a couple of inches of labial tissue on the outside of the vagina. Depending on her position, a woman can typically accommodate 5-6 inches.

I've been reading this thread with much interest, and finally had to weigh in. Size does matter. I've never met an experienced woman who said, "It's not the size, it's what he does with it" without rolling her eyes. That's just my personal experience. That said, it's not so much the length as the girth. Girth matters in a big way. It creates the sensation of being "filled," and a thick penis creates more friction and more pulling of the labial tissues. More pulling equals more movement of the clitoral hood, which creates more pleasure.

Zero brag here--I am very tight. I always have been, and any intercourse session begins with a bit of pain, and ends with my husband admonishing me to "let go." But I've been with a man who lacked the girth my husband has (and no, he's no porn star, he's not sporting a 2 1/2-3 inch girth), and the sensations between initial insertion and culmination of the act are seriously reduced without the girth. It just plain doesn't feel as good with a narrow penis.

'least not to me

Kallie

[redEva]

The vagina cannot accommodate 7-8 inches.
Kallie

As much as I agree on account of everything else with you, you are wrong about this. It’s all individual and yes, the thickness accounts for more than length but I personally can comfortably accommodate 9 inch dildo for extended period of time – and that is fully buried inside. Makes you sit much straighter than normal but it does fit *gigles*

[petpleasureyes]

For me, i'm quite happy with my penis size. i'm also happy with the way my penis looks. Having been trained to fuck animals, i'm more concerned with using it to put on a good show for those watching. Also, a larger penis might have meant i wouldn't have been selected to undergo this training. Ha! i know this is funny, so feel free to laugh. i have a great sense of humor about my training and part of my performance includes amusing others as well as thrilling them.

[fetish101]

As much as I agree on account of everything else with you, you are wrong about this. It’s all individual and yes, the thickness accounts for more than length but I personally can comfortably accommodate 9 inch dildo for extended period of time – and that is fully buried inside. Makes you sit much straighter than normal but it does fit *gigles*

lol..I wasn't going to argue it...but now I have back up!