Very embarrassing but necessary question

[crickette]

I am not even sure if I am in the right place to ask a question. I completely messed up my responses to the welcome aboard, so to speak, that I received. At any rate my questio is this, How do you chosse the right vibrator for you ? I know this is a very naive question but their are so many out there, some claiming to do things I have never heard of.So I am appealling to your experience to help a poor girl out. I would greatly appreciate it.
Still crazy and proud of it !
cRicKeTTe

[ceegee{Benz}]

ok. well I work for a sex party planning company here in the UK (when I get the chance ) and have done for 10 years.

there are so many different vibrators and dildos out there.
some that have one purpose and others that are multi funtional.
external and internal, clitoral stimulators, vibrators for him and her together.
There are ones that rotate and pulsate. lol the list is endless.

If this is your 1st vibrator then I would go for a soft jelly one or a bullet to place on the clit (and interally). is just a matter of trying and testing to find out which is suitable for you. you never know you might end up with a wicked toy collection and then have problems choosing which one to use !!!! LMAO

good luck with your quest and have fun

ceegee

[Mr W]

Ohh now theres an idea for a new section to the forum. Toys and opinions on them. Reccomendations Where to buy them etc etc

[littleone560]

Ohh now theres an idea for a new section to the forum. Toys and opinions on them. Reccomendations Where to buy them etc etc

oh i really like that idea! cause i am guessing we all know a few helpful things

[cariad]

You know something - that is exactly what baby girl thought - which is why she started
Tools of the Trade
in the knowledge base.

With more than one person having the idea, it must be good one!

cariad

[cariad]

You know something - that is exactly what baby girl thought - which is why she started
Tools of the Trade
in the knowledge base.

With more than one person having the idea, it must be good one!

cariad

[~hellish one~]

I just updated the thread w/ a post about Vibrators.

[jeanne]

My experience with the jelly type - apparently I am allergic - get a burning sensation. Also, it seems to soak up lubricant (and my natural lubricant) so we would use lots more than usual, or have to use it when we normally wouldn't. I finally asked that the jelly toys be retired - my husband suggested selling them in a garage sale! I can just see the little old ladies asking "What do you use this for, dear? Will you take fifty cents for it?"

[firewoman]

My experience with the jelly type - apparently I am allergic - get a burning sensation. Also, it seems to soak up lubricant (and my natural lubricant) so we would use lots more than usual, or have to use it when we normally wouldn't. I finally asked that the jelly toys be retired - my husband suggested selling them in a garage sale! I can just see the little old ladies asking "What do you use this for, dear? Will you take fifty cents for it?"

my problem too....but l havn't been able to work out if it's the lube or the materials that the vibe is made of because they are both supposed to be non-allergenic and l usually just end up itching like mad the next day or l get bladder infections !!!! ( and yes l use cleaners on my toys before and after and always clean my hands and fanny first and after ! )

[ceegee{Benz}]

^ or the little kids asking...mummy can i have this rocket please

[jeanne]

Imagine the disappointment when it doesn't "take off" even though there are batteries installed!! LOL

[ceegee{Benz}]

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[crickette]

Thanks for everyone's suggestions and comments. I definately have some belated B-Day shopping to do.
I also hope I am responding to the responses correctly. I am not sure some time. Can you believe I am going to school for a carer where I will be working on this things all the time!

[Echoes]

<blush> or your son taking it to school because he thought it was a rubber police baton

[ElectricBadger]

Well, I'm a guy, but from my experience -- the only way to really go wrong with a vibe is allergy issues and hugeness. I have heard the plug-in ones can be nice because they don't lose intensity as batteries die -- so if you're not going for portability you may want to try one of those out.

And please don't feel embarrassed. No shame in wanting to enjoy oneself privately. Myself, I think it's pretty sexy!

Am I prying if I ask (generally) what career you're going into that you'll be working with this stuff regularly? You've piqued my curiosity....

[DrkRvn]

WhenI lived in Arizona they had a chain of adult stores called Fascinations, and they actually had everyone of there vibrators out on display with batteries in so you could feel them and see how they worked and how strong hte vibrations are and stuff. I wish more stored did stuff like that.