was just wondering

[Swtsubmissve]

Hi! i was just wondering if A/anyone had any suggestions on reading material and/or websites for a relatively new sub?

thank Y/you!

[_ID_]

here is probably your best start.

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4529

The next place I would suggest is castlerealm.com

Then I would suggest getting the books

Different Loving

And

Screw the Roses send me the thorns.

V/R
ID

[Havensov]

I agree with IDCrewDawg. Both are good reads for both Dom's and subs in my opinion.

[Dragon's muse]

http://www.steel-door.com/Chamber.html

has some good info too

[Tojo]

www.submissiveloving.com is the site I usually recommend.

It's also worth having a good look around this forum at people's experiences & thoughts.


Tojo

[moptop]

Question must be asked by many, including me - this was really helpful, everyone, thanks (and I can recommend www.submissiveloving.com, which I went to on Tojo's advice - also found it led me to many places).

[Swtsubmissve]

thanks Eeveryone...

[cariad]

And thanks for asking the question Swtsubmissve, I have copied the recommendations over to Aesop's thread 'Tips for Beginners'

cariad

[Swtsubmissve]

Your welcome... its my job to please....

[moptop]

Another one I just found yesterday - I don't think it's live (it sounds like the people running it had some really difficult other things to deal with) but it certainly has some very useful and thought provoking stuff on it.

http://www.submissivewomenspeak.net/index.htm