Nipple clamp advice

[her_Joe]

His-pita and I want to try some nipple clamps that work for her -- the ones with the pre-formed noose that fits and slips tighter don't work for her because her nipples are quite small.

Would the alligator clips work better? Any other suggestions?

TIA.

[albear]

Would the alligator clips work better? Any other suggestions?

TIA.

The only other suggestion I could make is if you tried some tweezer clamps first. They're a little bit more.... gentle than the alligator clamps because they're adjustable. You can pull as much or as little of the nipple into them as you want, so I don't think size'd be a problem.

I recently invested in a pair of these, and while I usually have a complete aversion to nipple clamps, these are quite fun

[her_Joe]

The only other suggestion I could make is if you tried some tweezer clamps first. They're a little bit more.... gentle than the alligator clamps because they're adjustable. You can pull as much or as little of the nipple into them as you want, so I don't think size'd be a problem.

I recently invested in a pair of these, and while I usually have a complete aversion to nipple clamps, these are quite fun

Thanks, albear.

Do you have a link to the ones you like? Or a source?

And you're right -- I'd rather start a little less agressively in this case, if possible. She likes the idea, but ....

[His_pita]

Alligator and tweezers!


Can't I just glue them on?

[SirW]

And you're right -- I'd rather start a little less agressively in this case, if possible. She likes the idea, but ....

Might wish to try some small plastic clips. They are like clothespins but not as strong of a spring. You can buy them on-line through adult toy stores or go to Wal-Mart and get the bright plastic ones. They are in a variety of size and types. You can try them out on yourself right there in the store to see what the pressure would be (No...don't life your shirt and put them on one of your nipples...besides getting kicked out of Wal-Mart I find alot of men have a higher tolerance for nipple clamps then some women). Clip one on the skin between the thumb and forfinger. That is a good gauge of sonsitivity.
My subbie has very sensitive nipples and while we have a large array of clips and clamps, most we don't use much, or if we do only for a short period of time. What I have found more satisfying for us, is to apply pressure with my hand, slowly building it up, also twisting and occassionally flicking my finger at her nipple. This gives her small bursts of pressure without the long time effect of a clamp. Also, the longer you have the clamps on the less effect....till you take them off.
Have fun.


SirW

[her_Joe]

Clip one on the skin between the thumb and forfinger. That is a good gauge of sonsitivity.

SirW

That's great, SirW. I was wondering how to anticipate. Thanks. And the clips will stay on small nipples, you feel?

Both you and albear seem to feel that clamps are a normal second choice for pleasure -- wonder if that's the general case.

I've read several subs who seem to like to have weights attached -- I assume just a couple of ounces is enough?

[SirW]

I've read several subs who seem to like to have weights attached -- I assume just a couple of ounces is enough?

You can get weights that are from a few ounces to a whole lot more. It is really a matter of preference (less expensive ones and easy to get are the lead weights for fishing).
I find that women with smaller breasts can not take as much with weights as women with larger ones. Or if your sub can't take weights at all...do what I have done...moved the clamps and weights down to the labia....greater endurance there.....

Have fun...

oh...make sure you talk about what you are going to do before....and alot afterwards...also..make sure the sub is going to tell you the truth..and not go with it because she knows you want to do it....I alsways tell my sub tha t I want her to enjoy all of our expoeriences...don't just do something because I said I want it.....


SirW